This is very much a question aimed at those who have been in for the long haul.
I have now lost 4 stone (week 19), which is fantastic (obviously!) but I am struggling in Development (Tiger Girl and Cerulean have recently been very helpful about this). Goombagirl and AJ have also been very supportive.
My question is this...while I have shrunk, can I shrink some more in key body areas? And if so, by how much? It is clear to me that I am probably quite tiny underneath (who'd have thought, particularly when I bought size 24 jeans!) but I still have some parts that have more fat deposits than others. A friend lent me a top to wear to a party and even at size 16, it's snug! I reckon I am a 12/14 trouser - 12 on an excellent day, 14 the rest of the time!
I raised this issue in Development when I first started to identify what was fat and what was excess skin on my body. One of my Foundation Friends (ie we started together) - felt the rolls on my stomach/under my rib cage and agreed that I still had a lot of fat sitting around my core - we had a good laugh about it! I said, "Is this skin, or fat?" and she replied, "Fat"! If anyone outside of LighterLife had said that to me I would have been utterly crushed but this is someone who's also done the journey so I respect their opinion!
I think I have further to go BUT will the fat go (from abdomen/core, thighs and calves) or will the already-slimmer parts of me start to get scrawny? I seem to remember that Cerulean said her calves were getting smaller.
I will battle it out to lose another 1/2 - 3/4 stone IF there is a chance that the fat will diminish BUT I have no idea so it's over to the experts.
What do you think? What do you advise? My intuition says...try to go as low as you can because once I go into Management, it won't be the same, will it?! Yes, I have been influenced by my LLC but I don't want to take just one person's word for it.
I would really appreciate some guidance on this.
Thanks.
Mrs L xxxxxxxxxxx
I have now lost 4 stone (week 19), which is fantastic (obviously!) but I am struggling in Development (Tiger Girl and Cerulean have recently been very helpful about this). Goombagirl and AJ have also been very supportive.
My question is this...while I have shrunk, can I shrink some more in key body areas? And if so, by how much? It is clear to me that I am probably quite tiny underneath (who'd have thought, particularly when I bought size 24 jeans!) but I still have some parts that have more fat deposits than others. A friend lent me a top to wear to a party and even at size 16, it's snug! I reckon I am a 12/14 trouser - 12 on an excellent day, 14 the rest of the time!
I raised this issue in Development when I first started to identify what was fat and what was excess skin on my body. One of my Foundation Friends (ie we started together) - felt the rolls on my stomach/under my rib cage and agreed that I still had a lot of fat sitting around my core - we had a good laugh about it! I said, "Is this skin, or fat?" and she replied, "Fat"! If anyone outside of LighterLife had said that to me I would have been utterly crushed but this is someone who's also done the journey so I respect their opinion!
I think I have further to go BUT will the fat go (from abdomen/core, thighs and calves) or will the already-slimmer parts of me start to get scrawny? I seem to remember that Cerulean said her calves were getting smaller.
I will battle it out to lose another 1/2 - 3/4 stone IF there is a chance that the fat will diminish BUT I have no idea so it's over to the experts.
What do you think? What do you advise? My intuition says...try to go as low as you can because once I go into Management, it won't be the same, will it?! Yes, I have been influenced by my LLC but I don't want to take just one person's word for it.
I would really appreciate some guidance on this.
Thanks.
Mrs L xxxxxxxxxxx