I do believe there is some truth in that curve that it's not always the weight in a cosmetic way but in a personality way that can cause a man not to want to be with you. It must be hard to deal with from a relationship point of view, especially if that girl is not happy at the weight. i know myself as an overweight girl that I'm not happy, I'm not comfortable, not confident, I'm self conscience, less outgoing, less sociable etc etc because of my weight so how can that possibly make anyone happy. If you aren't happy yourself then there is no way you can make someone else happy. I've found that out myself quite recently. I now know I have to make myself happy as a priority, otherwise I'll never make anyone happy,
And liveadream being skinny, blonde and long legged is not what every man wants .. Far from it I reckon.. You don't marry someone for their looks, you don't marry someone for cosmetic reasons .. Of course there has to be initial attraction but that can come in many forms. In my opinion, To make lust change to love its their personality, the way they make you feel, being there, being happy etc etc. Looks fade too, a good woman will always be a good woman. So if he loves you then reward him for that by first of all making yourself the happiest you can be then making him happy too. ForgeT everyone else.