mistyangel
Silver Member
I have a Black Tie event in mid November. My aim is to try and get down a dress size. I have a long black velvet gown and tried it on yesterday, it did look quite glamorous but all I could see what my big stomach and big behind. I have not worn a dress in over 20 years and would just like to feel elegant and graceful and not be totally self-conscious. The dress is that type of material that is a bit stretchy but on the hand it it shows up all my lumps and bumps!! I have visions of myself wearing the dress, losing some weight feeling good but then falling over, all elegance and grace gone! 



