If I thought i'd make it through months without going out to eat, I would have said I was crazy. Xeili, you're two weeks before me, and i'd say, it's amazing! First time I went out last weekend and dh and I greeted along checking out menus, deciding on the one with a nice steak entree. I was going to go off for that one meal, maybe a martini.
I didn't. Changed the garlic mashed potatoes to a salad. The waiter somehow forgot the sautéed mushrooms and I let it go. Ended up only eating the steak, so kept to my pp day after all.
Somehow this all messes with my head. Old ways are dropping by the wayside. And, even the little breakdowns no longer carry the superior gratification they used to. Once I said no to the potatoes, I've had them before, and I just couldn't/didn't want the martini after all, the rest was easy.
I bet you'll have a similar experience. With so much wonderful energy you've put into this, I bet you'll choose exactly what compromise is right for you. How can you not? You're going into it with conscious decisiveness to do what works best for you.