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therealbbe

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Prey of you think this is a pity thread but I think I need some words of encouragement I am not off track am on day four but today at uni was awful and feel so alone and been crying and feel really depressed nobody understands what it's like for me I haven't told anyone what I am doing can't handle the comments if I am honest :(
 
Prey don't know what that meant I meant to say sorry if you think this is a pity me thread!
 
Hey Sharon, you ok? you have people here who care, support and understand, we all go through it to varying degrees, and it sounds like you have loads on your plate. if you need anything just ask. x
 
Awwwww hun please stay strong is their a close family friend you can talk too or sit with you for a while think we have enough to cope with being on our roads to our losses you certainly don't need anything to add to it I'm thinking of you Sharon and like rugger if anything can help you with let us know Jo x

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Hello guys thanks for words of encouragement it is just strange when you can't talk to people that your close to because they won't understand I am doing better after my bath and going to have last pack now. I know you are all here fore me and appreciate it. The one person I have told apart from hubby said maybe your toooo stressed to deal with this now try WW like me!!! This is why I am not telling anyone else I don't wanna do bloody WW I can't do bloody WW hence why I am here lol xxxxx
 
Also I didn't use food to get over my blue day like I would normally and think I am coming out the other side xxxx
 
Well hopefully hubby is there for you to, I'm sure he'll benefit from a happier more confident wife. i guess I'm lucky as my GF has done CD so understands things a bit better. RB xx
 
therealbbe said:
Prey of you think this is a pity thread but I think I need some words of encouragement I am not off track am on day four but today at uni was awful and feel so alone and been crying and feel really depressed nobody understands what it's like for me I haven't told anyone what I am doing can't handle the comments if I am honest :(

Hi. Sorry, i know I've not spoken to you before, and i hope you don't mind me joining this thread, but i just saw your plea and just wanted to say "say strong hun". The mere fact that you are doing this diet shows that you are a fighter and that you can do it. You have made the choice to make a change to your life and that is amazing. Like you, i am not telling people that i am doing this diet-honestly- i think it is because i am ashamed-without this site i don't think i would have made it to the dizzy heights of day 6. Tomorrow will be a new day hun and you will be waking up even lighter. Now that has to be something to smile about. Big hugs. X
 
rugger bugger said:
Well hopefully hubby is there for you to, I'm sure he'll benefit from a happier more confident wife. i guess I'm lucky as my GF has done CD so understands things a bit better. RB xx

Hubby is amazing I am very lucky indeed!!! Xxx
 
there, you sound brighter already. and like demonp said tomorrow is a new day and you WILL wake up lighter. x
 
rugger bugger said:
there, you sound brighter already. and like demonp said tomorrow is a new day and you WILL wake up lighter. x

Thank you RB I feeling good. So strange where them emotions came from lol. My gorgeous hubby just made me my last pack for the day porridge I have been dreading having it and putting it off since this morning and couldn't stand the texture but I heard somewhere on here to blend it then add more water. He brought up to me whilst I was in bed and he said "baby sorry it looks but runny I really did only put what it said on the back" I looked and it and thought Oh my God that is what porridge should look like. It was divine and so happy I really enjoyed that pack xxx
 
therealbbe said:
Prey of you think this is a pity thread but I think I need some words of encouragement I am not off track am on day four but today at uni was awful and feel so alone and been crying and feel really depressed nobody understands what it's like for me I haven't told anyone what I am doing can't handle the comments if I am honest :(

You sound just like me, keep up the good work. It may be hard now, but you will be so glad when you have lost that weight. When you look back on it I bet you will think it wasn't that hard, it will be a distant memory, then you can enjoy your new, healthy slim physique. :)
 
Committed said:
You sound just like me, keep up the good work. It may be hard now, but you will be so glad when you have lost that weight. When you look back on it I bet you will think it wasn't that hard, it will be a distant memory, then you can enjoy your new, healthy slim physique. :)

Awwww thank you for that lovely post I am day 6 now and feel great!! Xxxx
 
That's good to hear I'm on day 4 and can't stop thinking about food. I wish I could fast forward the next 4 months of my life. Good luck with your weigh in :)
 
Hi committed and welcome just to let you know day 4 was my hardest ever day which was yesterday woke up this morning and felt fantastic!!!!! And I mean good not long now and you can say goodbye to day 4 Jo x

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jojo73 said:
Hi committed and welcome just to let you know day 4 was my hardest ever day which was yesterday woke up this morning and felt fantastic!!!!! And I mean good not long now and you can say goodbye to day 4 Jo x

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Thanks jojo, well done for getting this far. It's good to hear your feeling good. I am fine every morning as I've never eaten breakfast and get up for work quite early, and then lunch time I have been avoiding the staff room by just doing extra jobs in my classroom. But it's the evening I find hard, I work for 12 hours a day and in the evening I just want to eat a nice meal, something to look forward to. Sorry to moan, I just hope this feeling goes away, as the thought of doing this for 4 months is hard to bear. But the thought of being slim and confident is amazing. :)
 
Committed said:
That's good to hear I'm on day 4 and can't stop thinking about food. I wish I could fast forward the next 4 months of my life. Good luck with your weigh in :)

Yeah I know what you mean I am the same wishing life away!!! I would love to be able to wake up in 4 months and think oooooo I like you but.......doing it this way I will be proud of my achievements and hope I will feel better for it and be a strong person xxx
 
therealbbe said:
Yeah I know what you mean I am the same wishing life away!!! I would love to be able to wake up in 4 months and think oooooo I like you but.......doing it this way I will be proud of my achievements and hope I will feel better for it and be a strong person xxx

Yes, me too. Hopefully it will come round quicker than it sounds. I've made a wall chart which counts down the weeks and I've but a huge list of why I want to do this, I then wrote up some mini goals and have decided a get a treat for every mini goal. Have you done anything to help? A stronger person that hopefully won't want to go through this again and be able keep it off this time. :)
 
Committed said:
Yes, me too. Hopefully it will come round quicker than it sounds. I've made a wall chart which counts down the weeks and I've but a huge list of why I want to do this, I then wrote up some mini goals and have decided a get a treat for every mini goal. Have you done anything to help? A stronger person that hopefully won't want to go through this again and be able keep it off this time. :)

Yes def that is my goal. I haven't done anything yet maybe I should do hhhhmmmmmm need to start thinking about it why am I doing this apart from coz I look horrendous ohhhhh I have taken pics in my underwear!!! Which reminds me must put lock on phone :D xxx
 
Honestly ladies by day 5 you will feel much better I assure you all and feel better in doing the plan Jo x

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