DitzeeBlond, good morning.
I'm afraid I am too much of a newbie here to know much of anything but I just wanted to say good luck. From the last posts it sounds like you know what you want and you have researched extensively. It's wonderful when the ones you love are there to support you and it seems like your OH is a wonderful person. Good luck with everything you choose to do. You come across as a lovely person and you are also generous with your time for others, you deserve happiness, and if this is what you have chosen to do I will join the group in wishing you all the best xx