hi good luck but it sounds to me you are back tracking a bit now, saying he isnt as bad as you made out. Man and wife should stick together he should be helping you with this not packing a bag and if he is conerned for your health then wait til you get to over 20 stone? mmm! I think you will 'win' him back so good luck with that and however much you say this is for you I don't quite believe it sadly. I found the title quite shocking to be honest, good luck on your jounery and I really hope you are able to gain some conferdence along the way