skinnylegs
Silver Member
You'll come out of this stronger and like one of the others say, concentrate on your work you're doing so well and you're worth much more than him!
A diary of a slimming world consultant
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rosierose15
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Thank u to u all for your support x
Franalamadingdong
Gold Member
Because he's a coward love. That's your explanation for all his pathetic, dirty actions. Not all men are like that, and you will find a good one when you are ready 
which obviously isn't going to be the day after you are cheated on. Don't forget, you now get to have lots of fun, going out (I so miss going out on the pull - I've not done that for YEARS AND YEARS and it was so much fun) you get to go on hilariously awful dates that you can giggle about with your girlfriends full control of the remote is a personal favourite, and no one to eat the rest of the share bar/bag of chocolate. Omnyomnyomnyom
which obviously isn't going to be the day after you are cheated on. Don't forget, you now get to have lots of fun, going out (I so miss going out on the pull - I've not done that for YEARS AND YEARS and it was so much fun) you get to go on hilariously awful dates that you can giggle about with your girlfriends full control of the remote is a personal favourite, and no one to eat the rest of the share bar/bag of chocolate. Omnyomnyomnyom
flabtofit
Gold Member
Rosie the biggest 'kick in the teeth' - so to speak - that you could give him would be to pick yourself up, carry on with your group and persue your ambitions.
Men like that want you to hurt/miss them but hate it when they can see you getting on with your life and being successful.
Even though its hard, put a 'face' on and keeo smiling - it'll show him how strong you are and that you don't need him
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Men like that want you to hurt/miss them but hate it when they can see you getting on with your life and being successful.
Even though its hard, put a 'face' on and keeo smiling - it'll show him how strong you are and that you don't need him
X
Texty_F
Gold Member
Men dont do explanations just excuses - he will be cowering somewhere with his tail between his legs. Just dont let him try to worm his way back.
I went through this with my daughter years ago. Her then bf was out on his works xmas do and rang her ( straight after doing it) to tell her he had just been in a park and *****ed someone from work, I woke to hear her screaming hysterically. She did try to make it work with him but she said mam i cant do it whenever im with him all i can picture is him in the park with her.
Needless to say she got rid and is now happily married - so trust will come, it just takes time. Stay stong chick x
I went through this with my daughter years ago. Her then bf was out on his works xmas do and rang her ( straight after doing it) to tell her he had just been in a park and *****ed someone from work, I woke to hear her screaming hysterically. She did try to make it work with him but she said mam i cant do it whenever im with him all i can picture is him in the park with her.
Needless to say she got rid and is now happily married - so trust will come, it just takes time. Stay stong chick x
rosierose15
Silver Member
I've never been single. I'm 22 was with a guy for 5 years then twatface for 2 so it's all kinda scary to me at the mo
flabtofit
Gold Member
I was the same Rosie - my ex was a mentally and physically abusive bully who used to cheat on a regular basis - I stupidly kept taking him back. Was young I guess and he was all I'd known.
Being single was scary at first but then empowering to know I didn't need a man to make men happy - I had friends, hobbies etc...
I met my OH a good few months later and am now married with two lil angels.
A cliche but I strongly believe.everything happens for a reason
Being single was scary at first but then empowering to know I didn't need a man to make men happy - I had friends, hobbies etc...
I met my OH a good few months later and am now married with two lil angels.
A cliche but I strongly believe.everything happens for a reason
rosierose15
Silver Member
Yeah I am a spiritualist I believe that too. I also believe in a lovely thing called karma x
rosierose15
Silver Member
I hope he catches something nasty lol
Franalamadingdong
Gold Member
without sounding awful, do get checked out just in case he cheated on you before and gave you something. It's unlikely, but better safe than sorry.
Being single can be fun. I'm happier now than I ever was with Nate's dad (my boy). I don't have to bail him out, I can buy whatever I like without having to answer to anyone, I can do what I want when I want (within reason as I do have a wee one tying me down, but you don't!) I get to enjoy my hobbies without fearing being mocked, I can cook whatever I like without hearing moaning "but I don't like veg" like a 7 year old. There are so many great things, big and small.
After he bogged off I said I wasn't going to do what a lot of my friends do which is to go from one man to the next in a fear of not being with someone. At the time it was because I do not want that for my son - having men come in and out of his life, but now I have some self worth back, I don't want it for myself either. If I should meet a nice man in the future then so be it, I won't just tell them to bog off for the sake of it, but my standards are now very high because not only is it what my son deserves it is what I deserve too. And You deserve it as well. Let the girls who will go with a taken man in a car park and what have you have the time-wasting losers of the world, there are many wonderful men out there waiting for you in the mean time, get to know you
Being single can be fun. I'm happier now than I ever was with Nate's dad (my boy). I don't have to bail him out, I can buy whatever I like without having to answer to anyone, I can do what I want when I want (within reason as I do have a wee one tying me down, but you don't!) I get to enjoy my hobbies without fearing being mocked, I can cook whatever I like without hearing moaning "but I don't like veg" like a 7 year old. There are so many great things, big and small.
After he bogged off I said I wasn't going to do what a lot of my friends do which is to go from one man to the next in a fear of not being with someone. At the time it was because I do not want that for my son - having men come in and out of his life, but now I have some self worth back, I don't want it for myself either. If I should meet a nice man in the future then so be it, I won't just tell them to bog off for the sake of it, but my standards are now very high because not only is it what my son deserves it is what I deserve too. And You deserve it as well. Let the girls who will go with a taken man in a car park and what have you have the time-wasting losers of the world, there are many wonderful men out there waiting for you
in the mean time, get to know you
rosierose15
Silver Member
Very good advice but he never stopped me going out didn't care what I did or who with. Thinking bout it now he never gave a crap bout me at all x
Franalamadingdong
Gold Member
Ah, in that case dead weight. and we all know what we do with extra weight we don't need!
rosierose15
Silver Member
Shoulda done it a long time ago but I am a fool in love. And it's true love is blind
Mrs.S.
Gold Member
He probably will with the way he's behaving
Hope you're feeling a bit bothered today? It will get easier everyday! xxx
