Ambrina, I'm happy to hear you have taken the big step of joining SW but I'm not sure this is the right thread to get the kind of help you seem to be looking for. This thread is about people who are thinking about becoming, or are in the process of becoming, SW consultants and people share their experiences about this process on the thread.
I'm only a recent member of minimins so I'm not entirely sure which area to direct you to, but I would say the best thing to do would be to give your consultant a call for some support and advice as perhaps you've not quite got the hang of the plan.
Don't be too quick to blame the carbs - read and understand the plan, follow it 100% and TRUST it will work, don't sabotage yourself mentally by worrying about eating carbs. They are not evil
I eat them every day and lose weight, in fact I've lost 2 stone so far. I've been on no carb/low carb diets in the past and whilst I may have lost a few lbs initially, I was totally miserable, craving them madly and not able to keep it up for more than 6 weeks at most. I've been following the SW plan now for 26 weeks, extremely happily.
Also if you are weighing yourself at home between groups then try not to do that if you can as this can sabotage your weight loss, your weight will naturally fluctuate so it could give you a false view of your progress.
SW definitely works if you follow the plan so maybe there's just a few things you need to tweak and your consultant can help you to do that so call them, it's what they are there for.
Hope that is of some help - I'm sure the other ladies will jump in if they have a better idea of which thread might help or have anything to add.