Im so, so pleased for you. My story is very similar to yours. A year ago i weighed just over 13 st and at 5'2 i was squashing into 16s. I was depressed from loosing my brother the year before in an accident, i had fibromyalgia and had let myself go. My partner of 5 yrs cheated on me with a skinny tart and my world also crashed around me.I to lost about a stone and a half in the next few weeks, i was just sickned.We tried to work it out but the stress and guilt was to much and we broke up in September. I then joined a gym and started to heal myself and by christmas he is back in my life and were still slowly trying to get us back again. I rejoined sw in January and now im getting my confidence back. Im looking great and feeling great and were getting along great. Were not together but hopefully we will be, but if not im now a happier, healthier person than i was. The faults in the begining were on both sides and in a wierd way i wouldnt be feeling this good about myself if it never happned. I truly know how you felt and im so pleased for you and the happiness youve now found.Some things come along and can either break us or make us stronger, its up to us all to take steps to our own happiness.