OMG your sister needs a feckin smack!!! I mean.. She might not earn enough to cover her outgoings, I don't know.. But that' HER fault!!!
Why the hell wouldn't you deserve this raise when as you say ya'v been there 4 years with no raise and you bloody hard!!! She can be really nasty towards you (I'm sorry if I'm stepping on toes usually I'd bite my tongue where families are concerned but I just can't)
I dunno if its coz she's unhappy in her own life.. If she's jealous of you (I know you won't agree with this point but there's allot to be jealous about.. believe me!).. Or if she's just not a very nice person..
My brother can be very begrudging sometimes with me.. He's seriously unhappy with his life but won't take any steps to make it better and at the end of the day he got himself where he is!
Like, when they ask about the house hunting he'll be really nasty.. Just little sly comments n little jibes.. Mainly its coz (this sounds so vain but i think u'll understand what I mean by it.. as u kno me by now) I have the life, or have lived my ilfe, the way he'd like to have lived his... He LOVES his kids and would die for them... But he wishes he'd waiting to have them.. Waited to get married.. Waited to geta mortgage.. Gone on holidays and just lived his teenage life... All decisions he made and no-one's fault but his as everyone tried to talk sense into him about getting the house n married way back but he wouldn't listen...
I'm by no means saying I have a great life or that I lived my life to the full.. I didn't.. But just that I have the freedom to feck off as n when I like...
He was 18 when he had his first baby.. 19 when he had his second.. And 21 when he got his mortgage... Him n Marie wer only together about 6 r 7 months for she found out she was pregnant which I think he now regrets as well coz it kinda meant that was it n they stayed together "for the kids"