I don't mind. It's a bit of a joke really. We both gave up smoking together about 3 years ago and joined the gym at the same time. She is incredibly focussed and kept to everything whereas I didn't keep up exercising, have had a few lapses smoking wise (although I haven't smoked now for about 2 years), and put weight on. While she now runs marathons, I'm struggling to run at all! despite all that, she is a terrible influence drink wise and has a higher tolerance level than me. Some time ago we attended a conference in Manchester and Bev suggested we went for a glass of wine before catching our respective trains home. One glass of wine turned into 4 large glasses. I caught the train home and should have got off at Chesterfield but fell asleep and ended up miles from home at a place called Langley Mill which is in the middle of nowhere. There were no trains due until the next morning. I ended up having to ring for a taxi and paying £40 to get home! So now I've discovered a new benefit of following exante - I'm ttotal now!!!!!!