beccas diary

It could be her hormones or anything, if you give the vets a quiet ring then at least you know what they say. Is your oh maybe just being defensive? he might come round when he has had time to think about it and see your not letting it go. It could get much more serious if he doesn't do something now. I really hope you get her sorted, looks like your having to be the bad guy, I was too :(
 
You know it would make sense, my cat went mad when I was pregnant would not leave me alone and went mental if anyone went near me, and started acting weird we took her to the vets and it was cus she was on heat she could sense my hormones, we had her done and as soon as she was she was fine, maybe worth looking into getting her done x
 
ye i think he is being defensive, we havent got the money at the mo to take her the vets,our vets charge us consultation fee and then whatever else she has done. got up this morn and oh acting as if everything normal,trying not to get myself stresses out. got ohs little girl coming today aswell and always feel on edge with the dog
 
Have a look online, we took our cat to be done at a place that only charged £10 for people with low income and they did dogs too x
 
i am doing hun,its just everything at the min stressin me out and would make life so much easier if didnt have to come to work.boss bein ***** and not givin me what i entitled too
 
That's the trouble with ppl with businesses they get greedy and know the staff rely on them they take the p put of u ur nearly 30 weeks pregnant he should give u what u entitle too could u have a word with him ??? I used to work for a asssss hole boss so I know exactly where u coming from I used to do beauty x
 
I don't know how it works but could you not look at going on sick for the next few weeks before you start your mat leave? All this stress can't be good for you xx
 
i was thinking maybe try and do that for last week or two but dont think she would let me. i norm do 9-7 tue and thurs and fri 9-12 and sat 9-5 so was thinking mayb askin could i taje last few sats off unpaid
 
aint been on here for few days been very stressed over the dog and havent bewn counting cals.
dog still being very wary and im still very worried,me and oh have argued constantly for days over dog and he still having none of it.
i went to my mums today and couldnt help but get upset,he is not listening to me and i so stressed with it.
my mum not too happy as he putting the dog first.
she suggested coming home and putting thw moses basket downstairs with teddy in it and put phone inside moses basket with baby crying ringtone and c how she reacts.
i done this and she was sniffing away at moses basket and was wary of were noise was coming frim, oh was laughing thinking it fun and games saying she bot bothered by it.
i put bouncer next to basket with teddy in it too and she keeps going up to it and sniffing but she aint gone for it or anything.
she is just lying on floor nxt to oh and just starea at me coz i on other couch by thw basket etc.
i want to gt teddy nd pretend i holfing it etc to c how she reacts but i scared of my own dog
 
Unfortunately becca dogs aren't stupid, she'll know the difference between a teddy and a baby, completely different smells for a start. It doesn't mean everything will be okay if she is ok with b teddy. Has your oh not explained why he is putting his dog before his children? I'm sorry to hear you aren't any further forward x
 
i know thats what i was saying to my mum, she is very annoyed with oh but we were thinking if things to try as he having none of it.
would you recommend anything to try out to c how she reacts?
he doesnt wnt to take her the vets and i partly think he thinks the dog will turn on them,anyone thats not me and oh shes aggressive with and growls at.
 
What about one of those plug in things, do they do them for dogs, you know the ones that they do for cats and calms them down, how about getting one of them and seeing how she is then with other people x
 
Google them I know you can deff get cat ones it's like an airfreshener type thing but it's calms pets down x
 
beccaharrison89 said:
i know thats what i was saying to my mum, she is very annoyed with oh but we were thinking if things to try as he having none of it.
would you recommend anything to try out to c how she reacts?
he doesnt wnt to take her the vets and i partly think he thinks the dog will turn on them,anyone thats not me and oh shes aggressive with and growls at.
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Yeah but if he doesn't want her to go to vets incase she turns on them, then he must know the vets will recommend her put to sleep, so surely he realises how serious this is? I'm worried he won't back you up until baby is home and something bad happens :( without getting help for her from the vets I can't suggest anything x
 
we have to take her the vets anyway as she overdue for yearly booster so whilst we there can see what they say.she is such a calm dog when noone around but as soon as someone comes the house it a different story
 
Well hopefully it'll jus be a hormonal thing, but your best to go down that route before baby is here and if she needs spade you can get grants and vouchers and things from the dogs trust or pdsa to help with the cost if you can't afford it. Don't it me wrong I have nothing against dogs being round babies even after our horrible situation, if I could I'd have another dog tomorrow. Best case scenario is you go to vets they tell you to get her spade, she calms down with other people and is perfectly fine when baby comes x
 
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