BinkyBonk needs to lose weight...
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BinkyBonk
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Feeling a bit upset...
Three months ago I offered to throw my sister a baby shower and got told that my sisters fiancé family are doing it, so I accepted that even though I was upset I couldn't do that for my sister.
Last week my mom asked me to throw a baby shower as his family weren't doing one now?
So I contacted his aunt and asked her to help me sort one, she said yes and that his family would come.
Tonight I have received a message saying they are going to do there own now...
Getting a bit fed up of life tbh, feeling tired, upset and just want a break x x
Sorry for my rubbish mood the last few days my lovely minis, everything is just getting to me and I feel very alone x x
Three months ago I offered to throw my sister a baby shower and got told that my sisters fiancé family are doing it, so I accepted that even though I was upset I couldn't do that for my sister.
Last week my mom asked me to throw a baby shower as his family weren't doing one now?
So I contacted his aunt and asked her to help me sort one, she said yes and that his family would come.
Tonight I have received a message saying they are going to do there own now...
Getting a bit fed up of life tbh, feeling tired, upset and just want a break x x
Sorry for my rubbish mood the last few days my lovely minis, everything is just getting to me and I feel very alone x x
Blondcat
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Wtaf?!!! That is bizarre. Honestly there's no point me saying don't let it get to you because it would get to me!! I would tell your sister about this.
You need a big hug from your man or a night out with your BFF xx
strawberry
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How crazy, I agree with Blondcat about a night out... you need a break and time to relax because all of this isn't helping. How about a trip to the cinema or a pamper night? Big hugs xx
wafflewaffle
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Urgh families can be so awkward sometimes, especially inlaws!!!
Are you still going ahead with your shower? Ie, is your sId going to have 2 now? I didn't even have one when I Was pregnant lol! I'd just go ahead with it and make sure yours is way better than theirs haha xx
thelifeofpieface
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I agree with this! Make theirs look bad compared to yours lol xxx
BinkyBonk
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I don't know, they are now saying they might be able to get the train down but could we meet them at the station, will have to wait and see trying to get my mom to sort out the venue as her friend works there so we should be able to use it for free, i cant really do anything until it is confirmed and i am running out of time x
BinkyBonk
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We are meeting our friends tomorrow night to go to our local and hopefully seeing my other friend in the day =)
The bf is also being very supportive of everything going on =)
BinkyBonk
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I think and hope there will be just one as it would be nicer for my sister, am trying to organize it for two weeks time ahhhhh hate leaving things to the last minute =(
I have found elephant cups, plates, banners, napkins, table cloths etc all in blue, which she will love as elephants are her favorite, i have two friends helping me with game ideas and my other friend is going to make the cake and cupcakes and help me make the food and drive it all down there, which is so lovely =) So all is on track just need the venue confirmed but my mom is struggling to sort this and i can't do anything until i know as i can then confirm who will be going x
Why didn't you have a shower =( x
BinkyBonk
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Mine will be very suited to my sister so she should love it =) would be nicer for her to do just one though x
BinkyBonk
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I saw the physio again today and she was so nice again, she said my walk has less of a limp and she can see a difference which is great as i can't, she has given me harder exercises to do with the ones i have =) when i am stronger she wants me to attend a physio class which is scary but hopefully i will meet some nice people x
I now fit in my black coat again and feel much happier in my clothes, i stopped in superdrug and got more slim fast powders and bars for when i return from centre parcs, am feeling determined =)
I now fit in my black coat again and feel much happier in my clothes, i stopped in superdrug and got more slim fast powders and bars for when i return from centre parcs, am feeling determined =)
BinkyBonk
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I have just been brave =D
I have seen a job advertised for a social worker that is slightly above my level but in line with what i would like to do, so i rang them to find out and they were so nice, they also confirmed that i can apply for outreach and support worker roles now with my current qualifications and experience =D
Once i am in that role i could look at studying for my social work degree or the EYPS =) I just need to get my license now as most of the jobs require it and that is the problem, i have my theory booked in a few weeks and am okay with the questions but not so much with the hazard part =( need to get it right or i will fail boo.
I then need to start practicing again as the bf has refused to take me out until i have passed my theory, the main issue i have with this is that i don't see how i am ever going to get confident if he won't let me keep going out, i wanted to be passed by December (when my nephew is due) so that i can be confident by the time we are ready to do trips like the zoo he he x
I have seen a job advertised for a social worker that is slightly above my level but in line with what i would like to do, so i rang them to find out and they were so nice, they also confirmed that i can apply for outreach and support worker roles now with my current qualifications and experience =D
Once i am in that role i could look at studying for my social work degree or the EYPS =) I just need to get my license now as most of the jobs require it and that is the problem, i have my theory booked in a few weeks and am okay with the questions but not so much with the hazard part =( need to get it right or i will fail boo.
I then need to start practicing again as the bf has refused to take me out until i have passed my theory, the main issue i have with this is that i don't see how i am ever going to get confident if he won't let me keep going out, i wanted to be passed by December (when my nephew is due) so that i can be confident by the time we are ready to do trips like the zoo he he x
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thelifeofpieface
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Morning binks , your inbox is full again he he xxxMorning peeps, hope everyone is having a nice weekend
BinkyBonk
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Just emptied x
BinkyBonk
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Job prospects sound exciting! Always aim high
I know eeek x
He is right I need to do the theory but I wish he would let me practise at the same time x x
Blondcat
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No excuse for not letting you practice. I think maybe not paid for lessons until theory done. He's probably doing it to force you to get on with the theory test!
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