blades4life
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Im sort of getting it off my chest on here but hes pushed me too far this time.
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Im sort of getting it off my chest on here but hes pushed me too far this time.
Cheekypasterfield
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There are days when I think us women are best on our own with a casual husband 
blades4life
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There are days when I think us women are best on our own with a casual husband
Hes just come to loo while i was in bath and deliberately switched off light and left me laid in dark x
Cheekypasterfield
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Hiya lovely xx how today is a better day and hubby stops being an arse. chin up xx
blades4life
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Hes still in a fowl mood x
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Plus to top it off my daughter has been sick twice this morning so no school tomorrow x
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Oh no you're really not having a easy time hun. My youngest threw up all over me last night
Hope you and hubby can sort things out soon. So hard to live with an atmosphere xx
blades4life
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Oh no you're really not having a easy time hun. My youngest threw up all over me last night
Hope you and hubby can sort things out soon. So hard to live with an atmosphere xx
Hes just criticising me this morning x his dad coming for dinner so he maybe more civil then but feel like its my fault why we not talking when its him x
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Hope you dont mind me asking how come you've had a falling out?
From my own experience hubby and I usually have a big argument when it's fuelled with him feeling bad but it's my fault. We do get through it but it typically ends in another argument when hubby opens up
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Our son was misbehaving so i sent him to bed x my hubby then picked him up and put him bed because my son wouldnt listen. And because he was screaming (like most kids do when they get upset) he said to my son im gonna get rid of you on monday. Now i wont let my son be spoken to like that by his own dad. Its awful at minute, hes coming making snide comments xx
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Oh hun, that sounds like my household, I can really emphasis with you. No one tells us how having kids brings out so many conflicts. I have had several battles with hubby in how he handles our girls (5 & 3). Hubby says he always feels like I am undermining him.
I'm guessing he's being like this because he knows it was a stupid comment to make. Hes probably blameing you as you made him aware of it.
None of this makes it better but I personally find if I can understand my hubby emotionally it's easier to cope with.
I'm guessing he's still streaming and your hurting that this isn't the right time to talk yet.
Maybe after dad is gone, he'll have calmed down and you can talk x
I'm guessing he's being like this because he knows it was a stupid comment to make. Hes probably blameing you as you made him aware of it.
None of this makes it better but I personally find if I can understand my hubby emotionally it's easier to cope with.
I'm guessing he's still streaming and your hurting that this isn't the right time to talk yet.
Maybe after dad is gone, he'll have calmed down and you can talk x
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Zafira
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Sorry to hear hubby is being an arse..
There is no proper way to bring kids up we all learn as we go along , i think what your hubby said was a scare tactic?
Doubt if your son would be permanently scarred by it x
I used to live near a prison when my kids were small and taking them out in the car would be a nightmare at times and once i pulled over opposite the prison and said i was taking them to it!!
They screamed , grabbed me, and said 'NO MUM'!! , after that though they behaved !
Just try and ignore him & his comments, even try and be 'unusually' happy and unbothered......it would prob be hard to get him to apologise.... i'd just have the don't care anymore attitute, and carry on, but that's me.......either that or give him a right hook and show him who's boss! LOL
hope it all sorts out for you xxx chin up!
There is no proper way to bring kids up we all learn as we go along , i think what your hubby said was a scare tactic?
Doubt if your son would be permanently scarred by it x
I used to live near a prison when my kids were small and taking them out in the car would be a nightmare at times and once i pulled over opposite the prison and said i was taking them to it!!
They screamed , grabbed me, and said 'NO MUM'!! , after that though they behaved !
Just try and ignore him & his comments, even try and be 'unusually' happy and unbothered......it would prob be hard to get him to apologise.... i'd just have the don't care anymore attitute, and carry on, but that's me
.......either that or give him a right hook and show him who's boss! LOL hope it all sorts out for you xxx chin up!
blades4life
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He was in tears yesterday and he asked me via text for a coffee lol which is his way of saying sorry. We had a general chat but because i got up and got in bath he decided to be childish and turn light off. He usually mellows round his dad. But then usually i back down so think hes scared now. To be honest i aont arguing with him like i usually do jist because ive given up.
blades4life
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Sorry to hear hubby is being an arse..
There is no proper way to bring kids up we all learn as we go along , i think what your hubby said was a scare tactic?
Doubt if your son would be permanently scarred by it x
I used to live near a prison when my kids were small and taking them out in the car would be a nightmare at times and once i pulled over opposite the prison and said i was taking them to it!!
They screamed , grabbed me, and said 'NO MUM'!! , after that though they behaved !
Just try and ignore him & his comments, even try and be 'unusually' happy and unbothered......it would prob be hard to get him to apologise.... i'd just have the don't care anymore attitute, and carry on, but that's me
hope it all sorts out for you xxx chin up!
I pretty much have ignored him and tried to be cheery but it is hard when now hes criticising every little thing i do x i am strong xx
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Sounds like you've got a similar husband to me.
We had a hum dinga yesterday and it got to the point where I had given up with the end being divorce that did shake him up; but like you I get tired of it all.
Stay strong hun, sometimes we need to give the other person a reality check to make it better x
We had a hum dinga yesterday and it got to the point where I had given up with the end being divorce
that did shake him up; but like you I get tired of it all.Stay strong hun, sometimes we need to give the other person a reality check to make it better x
blades4life
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Good for you!
Be strong or have it out with him, and say ''What IS your problem?!'', because you have had enough of HIS 'childish' behaviour!
or if he is criticizing say ''ok, smart ass! you do it''
Oh having it out with him causes more problems lol i will just be the sickly sweet wife lol that will make him feel even worse than he already does lol
blades4life
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Sounds like you've got a similar husband to me.
We had a hum dinga yesterday and it got to the point where I had given up with the end being divorce
Stay strong hun, sometimes we need to give the other person a reality check to make it better x
Well he threatened me with divorce on grounds that i was interfereing with his parenting skills lol
Cheekypasterfield
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That's a new one lol hubby has yet to use that one lol xx
blades4life
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Yes i just smirked with went down like a lead balloon lol
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