Hi Patty!
There are a lot of genuine people out there and I was fortunate enough to only deal with these people this time round. Bank holidays of any kind are horrible in the veterinary world as you either get people having a clear-out or leaving things too long and then there is no option. The thing is for where I work is we're free! And we run a 24hr service. So, to me, there is no excuse really!! We don't charge, just ask for a contribution, and we are always, always available for emergency treatment. There really isn't an excuse and I don't think a bank holiday should be one of them.
I had this conversation with my Dr once, like you do, and he said it is just the same with human medicine, particularly elderly people. They get ditched in care when the family need the space to throw a party or are left ill and without care over the holiday periods. Shocking behaviour!! I couldn't imagine inflicting that kind of thing on anyone or anything
But, like I said, the clients I was with for sending their animals off to heaven were lovely people and it was just time. Nothing to do with the bank holidays! My colleagues weren't so fortunate, but it's the nature of the job. My very first bank holiday at this job was a Boxing Day and at one point I just sat on the floor crying as I'd done 10 pts's in a row. And the other VCA was in a similar situation. Heartbreaking!
The housework thing annoys me seen as I'm not the only one who lives here. But that will never change really! Well it will a bit with Rachelle and John getting their house, so I suppose that will help, but my Mum can't really do much. So I have to go and do my ridiculously physical job, look after my own animals, look after the house and garden, and look after Mum. Oh and look after me occasionally too!
The what if game is not fun is it?! I really do understand what you mean. I just feel a bit stuck with being in a catch-22 really. I can't work full time now anyway and that doesn't look hopeful for the future. So I don't really have much money anyway!
All Mum's "stuff" is being left to both me and Rachelle equally. So I would hope that now she has John and their house that I wont have to sell this house. I would make sure she gets her share in everything and we'd have to work it out some way. But I don't really know how this stuff works.
When my Dad died he was renting a tiny flat, had just over £100 in his bank account, and his brother managed to track down a work pension worth £4,000. That was it! So there wasn't really much to deal with money-wise with my Dad.
Meh, anyway, must not think about this any more....
Yup, busy busy as always!!
But I did treat myself to a face mask, a nice long shower using my favourite Lush product (Turkish Delight polish), did my hair, and feel all nice and clean
Made myself a nice tea too.
Rachelle and John got back before but have nipped out to pick up Mum and to take her to the house - they finally got the keys yesterday!! They've been there today throwing stuff out and stripping wallpaper
So used the quiet time to revise for an exam. I *think* I've found all the answers to the questions on the drugs & medications short answer test. One way to find out!!
Forgot to say I've had a surprise period show up. I don't get them much any more because I'm on the contraceptive injection to stop them
But it's due next week and so it's appeared. Grrrrr!!! I've no idea if they make a difference to my weight or not because I keep them away lol!
Patty have a lovely weekend
And Happy Easter.xx