ooh how exciting planing your wedding
I've had 2...first one just 'practising' hee hee, but we did last 18 years! That wedding was the whole white wedding, reception, cars, bridemaids etc etc
2nd (and final) marriage was almost 4 years ago, just bride, groom, minister, all my children, vows in church on our island, then a family meal in a local hotel..I LOVED IT!
So, when you set your date, think venue, religious or civil, church or other venue, inside or outdoors....then same with reception
Think guest list, meal, entertainment...photographers, dvd, flowers, attendants (bridemaid etc)..don't forget marriage license and rings!!!
Lots of decisions, lots of calculating budget..but can be lots of fun (without stress! hee hee)
Remember initiallly the day is about you and your groom and what you both want it to be
Good luck!
I had an autumn wedding and then a spring one..if we ever renew our vows, i'd chose a christmassy winter wonderland