try not to think too much about conceiving, you know what they say, it'll happen when you don't expect it.
My family is historically weird.. took my Mum, my sister, my sister in law AND me around 2 years to get pregnant with first babies. Afterwards, my Mum got pregnant within 6 months of trying for her second and within one month with her 3rd. My sister went on to have 4 further children without even trying for any of them, my sister in law and me still only have 1 kid each but we've not tried for more (yet). The 2 youngest of my sisters children were born when she was mid to late 30's as well so age isn't necessarily an issue.
At the end of the day its a bit of a lottery, listen to your body, you will naturally feel like making an effort when your body is fertile. we tried all sorts of nonsense trying to predict ovulation, lying propped up on a pillow.... you name it we tried it. The month I did get pregnant my husband had been made redundant, we probably had sex about twice the whole month (weren't really in the mood for obvious reasons) had no idea when I ovulated and most definately did nothing artistic with the pillows.... and there it was when we least expected it.
good luck!
mags
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