Curlywurly is venturing over......and wants to stay slim forever more!!!!

Hello........
Well its Sunday still feel a wee bit tired this morning..
I guess Im up bright and early with the boys to make a change..
Seeing a few people today......... so need to get organised I guess..
I have added a pic of before I went out the other night with the girls.. and even though Im the smallest I have been in years.. I still find fault with seeing myself in the pic......... Hmmmm...
Well for starters I wore the wrong shoes with the outfit.. so thats the first thing I notice............
Anyway ... off to get organised.........
xxxx
 
Curly, you look fantastic hon. Just saw the new pic on another thread and popped over here to tell you how fab you look and how well you are doing, so stop looking for faults... there aren't any!!!

xxx
 
curlywurly1234 said:
I have added a pic of before I went out the other night with the girls.. and even though Im the smallest I have been in years.. I still find fault with seeing myself in the pic......... Hmmmm...
Well for starters I wore the wrong shoes with the outfit.. so thats the first thing I notice............

xxxx
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But you look drop dead gorgeous you muffin! So slim, womanly and pretty. Wrong shoes? Ha! I'd have been in wellies! :8855:
 
Aww thanks for your messages....... I think I am due for totm soon if it comes along this time.. and having a few fat days even though everything Im buying is an 8...... its a weird feeling when you feel like that I know lots of people say it takes a long time for your head to catch up with your body.. I do look in the mirror and like what I see now which is great......... Im not saying I love myself or anything but I used to hate looking in!!!
But.......... sometimes I look and find fault in what I see........ but hey we cant all be perfect I guess.
Now I have gone on loads..... urghhh

At work today and then out for my friends birthday tonight to a restaurant........

xx
 
I know what you mean Curly, I hated being fat, but I think now that I am thinner I find more to dislike about myself as I tend to look in the mirror more often.... You have done so well to get to a size 8, what is your target, do you still have a target weight or a target dress size?
 
Love your new pic honey, you seem to look good in everything at the mo - even your gym gear!!!!xxxx
 
thank you Linda and Julie your both too sweet........ I am happy today and feel good...... in what Im wearing etc.

OMG OMG OMG!!!!!!!!! One of my bosses just came out to me on reception and started chatting he can be a bit weird sometimes...... and he just started asking me about my diet etc. well not even asking me he just said to me have you finished that diet...... and with that went on how bad it is and as soon as I eat I will put it all back on and just went off on one in my face.. I have never even told him about apart from once he said to me he had lost 3 pounds or something so I said I have lost blah blah blah........
OMG the way he went off on one was just unreal. and I just said ok..... URGHHHHHHHHHHHH I felt so meak and so sad that someone could be so evil and bitter and so strong in my face.. I didnt even want to answer him as I feel so strongly about the diet........

He also said its an easy diet anyone can do it........ you would lose weight if you only have liquids but I will put money on it that you will put it all back on!!!

I have had comments before from lots of people but this has just OUT OF ORDER and I feel like crying.........

I also feel really upset as yesterday we went out for the day which was lovely went for a picnic with the kids and my bil and sil and my niece had a perfect day until Nathan my 3 year old ran off only a bit in front of us I called him to come back and he ran back but managed to fall in a stream ........... which you couldnt even see was there.. he went!! I froze scremed for my husband and he managed to drag him out his head didnt go under but everything else did........ and I just keep thinking what if............ We were right there like I saw everything but just a little away.......... xxxxx Feel like bursting out crying..
 
Hi hun. A huge thankyou to you for all your lovely positive messages while I was away.

I hope your totm comes soon and you're feeling on top of the world again. It's the strangest thing having a fat day when you know you're not fat anymore....but hey it's better than having a fat day (few days) because you're actually fat lol :)

Big hugs, you're doing SO well,
xxx
 
Oh my god hun....I'm so sorry you've been through all that. (we cross posted). You are going to be slim for the rest of your life. Thank goodness your 3yr old is okay, safe and sound.
x
 
OMG Marissa, how awful of your boss to say those things to you.... that is so out of order, he may be your boss but has no right to say those things, but at least you will prove him wrong as you will not put the weight back on, I bet he has put the 3lb back on already...

And your poor little nephew, it must have been quite a shock for him too... but in this life there are so many "what ifs" believe me I have been there and done that, I am now in a place where I dont do them anymore. I know that accidents happen and sometimes we may say or do the wrong things, but "what ifs" are just not healthy... "what ifs" never happen, so no point in giving them mind space. Take care of yourself hon and enjoy your meal with your friends... (I have got the right day for that haven't I).
 
I can't believe that manager said all that. I hope you've written it down somewhere word per word as much as possible. You never know when you may need that evidene. In the meantime, tell him I said he's a **** Gotta love Minimins editing :)

So glad your nephew is okay too. Wow. I can't imagine what that would have been like.

Hope you've had a lovely time out with your friend.
 
Oh Curly, what a horrible day. So glad your little boy is OK... scary. We had something similar years ago, were at an afternoon party in someone's garden, my kids were toddlers, playing quietly on grass where I could see them. Then my son was pulling at my leg, whimpering, 'C is in the water!' Water? What water? There was only a fish pond at foot of garden, nobody had told us. 18 month old daughter was in it up to her neck, hanging on to the vertical edge, standing still and brave and silent. OMG. She was fine, but you learn you have to have eyes in back of your head sometimes, and radar vision. Big hugs.

As for boss... ha. Insecure, sad, bitter, jealous old man. Best revenge is staying slim, and smiling sweetly at him as you live your happy life. One day he may be coming to you for diet advice, you never know. Put it behind you... his problem, not yours.

xxx
 
Thanks for all your messages as always my little boy is fine now...... It was just me feeling bad about it all etc...

Went out for a friends birthday last night to a turkish restaurant I just had chicken and nothing else with it..... but my stomach omg ...... it was bubbling not quite sure what it was cooked it but something wasnt right........

I am a away for the weekend for my cousins hen weekend...... I am sure there will be lots of drinking involved....... but I will be taking my shakes and bars with me etc......... I just cant not do what I have to do......... I will just have a chicken salad in the evening.. I can still enjoy myself without drink...........

Its so boring here at work today all the bosses are away apart from 1 and its just boring......... boo hoo.............

Roll on 5pm xxxx
 
Hun, your can still have rice, pasta and potato's when you're out. You don't have to stick with salad. There's so much choice on 1000 . I'd be the same tho, I take my CD meals wherever I'm away. Just looked at your pics again.....they're so fab!. Hey 6 months....the time is flying by so quickly.

Your brother.....has he really lost 8 stone now? Last time we heard about him it was 6.5 stone. He's really doing so well. He's nearly lost me altogether lol. Well done to you both x

Glad the CDCing is working out well. xxx
 
Hey hon ..
Thanks for your lovely comments....... on my pics......
I love love love wearing my leggings and like you I noticed in your pics with your denim skirt I wear my denim skirt loads over my leggins feel quite like a little girl in it I dont know why.

My brother has lost I think a pound or so under 8 stone....... He has done remarkably well.. i went with him to tesco the other day to help him get certain things and show him what he can have etc.. He looks great!! I need to get some pics of him before and after......

I know you can have rice, pasta, etc.. but I always find it bloats me out to be honest so where I dont have to have it I try not too.

xx
 
Lol, yeah sorry i know you know.... it's just so nice to be able to eat out with everyone and have lovely meals. You're just so good.

I love leggings (in them now :) ) and my little skirts. I have never worn such short skirts before! Also love all the dresses that are out at the moment. So pleased we have some good fashion out there to work with. I really do need to get rid of all my huge tops now tho as much as I love them. I really only have a handful that i'm wearing that fit me. I'll keep a few as they're nice to slob around in lol. Might do this later. God the money I've spent on clothes and i'm giving practically my entire wardrobe to charity! Nice to be able to tho xxx
 
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