Thanks everyone, your messages really helped.
Just wanted to leave a quick message in case anyone misses me. I have to go back to South Africa urgently as we have had a close family bereavement and I am needed. I will be flying out tomorrow. I don't know how or if I will be able to stay with LL whilst away but I will do my best, bearing in mind that I don't want to make a song and dance about myself at such a difficult time. I hope I will be able to check in occasionally but if not will be back amongst you all at the beginning of March. Dxx