I watched it and it was sad. As a psychologist and teacher, I agree with the comment above about abuse. This was such abusive behaviour, they were so enmeshed in a negative way. What 19 yr old boy wants his mom wiping his ass because he is too big, ill and tired to do it himself? She did not seem to see what the problem was. Understandingly she lost a child, however, does not logically justify overfeeding the second child so he remained in her control as a baby. Having said that, I use to see similar things when a parent would finally bring an anorexic child to clinic and did not seem to see that they were almost walking dead! (child lived but was admitted immediately with or without parent consent). What a world we live in eh?