Hi Dawn. Iv just stumbled across your diary and after reading your first post i just had to respond. Your doing so well, and you've been through so much. I have to ask, and i hope you do not find me rude- how do you dig deep to that motivation to loose weight over again when youv lost it once and then have to tackle it all over again when life gets in the way and throws you from the wagon? 5stones is alot to loose, and when i hit target.. iv always known deep down.. if i ever put it all back on- id never get it back off again because i simply found it quite an emotional rollercoaster aswell as a physical effort if that makes sense.. anyways, now im a few weeks from having my first baby and iv piled all my weight back on- of course some is baby.. but certainly not all!!! .. and my mind is constantly plagued with the knowlege that i have to get back on track asap.. but im an all or nothing kinda girl and i know i have to wait untill baby is out and were are settled in order to give it my all.. but i worry i wont be able to do it again. .. do you have any advise?
xxxxxxxx massive congratulations on your success honey xxxxxxxxx
Hi Fern
Of COURSE I don't think you're rude!!! Why on earth would I think that when you've been kind enough to take the time to look through my diary and then comment? :thankyou:
Well, I feel a bit embarrassed
to even think of offering you advice when I've looked at your photos and seen how well you've done! :happy096: And a finalist in YSOTY to boot!!!
My goodness...I hope you're very proud of yourself Fern xx
And now a baby on the way too :family2: ...and not long to go either! Big big congratulations to you :clap:
When I took the decision in January to lose weight, again, I already knew that Dad was dying and so I was well aware of how difficult it was going to be. My previous attempts had been successful, but I've never been able to maintain my loss, and sooner or later I've ended up back where I started
And the reason for this has always been emotional eating, usual story for most of us I suppose :sigh:
But this time, I was more prepared I think. I got it into my head that if I could lose weight while Dad was so ill, then I could do it ANY time. And of course Dad was all for it as he was really concerned for my health because I was fast approaching 16 stones.
It was hard, starting yet again, and having the constant stress of worrying about Dad, but I was talked into trying the EE plan by my consultant and I'm so glad she did! The other times I did SW it was red and green days, which was ok but I found them restricting. With EE I really didn't feel I was on a diet.
And I can't remember how, but I stumbled across this website which I truly believe has kept me from giving up when things were at their worst. My friends here, and I do class them as real friends, stopped me from going under. I wrote my feelings down here, my hopes, my fears, anything that I felt I needed to talk about. Quite often, I didn't write about anything food related at all. But I ALWAYS got a response. Night or day, there was some one prepared to listen and respond. Don't get me wrong, it wasn't all doom and gloom, and even during the darkest days we still managed to find something to laugh about
And I have kept all the lovely PMs I received offering comfort and support.
So I have to be honest and say that I don't think I can take all the credit for my weight loss this time! It's been a team effort! :grouphugg: I WAS very motivated, and obviously that's a major factor, and I was determined that I wasn't going to let Dad down. He would have been devastated to think that he had been the cause of my failing and giving up, and there was NO way I was having that! Dad never gave up.
I don't think you're going to have any problems finding your motivation again hunni
You managed to maintain for so long...such a hard thing to do...and I'm sure you'd still be at target now if you weren't pregnant. In just over 3 weeks time you are going to have the biggest motivational tool you could ever have...a little bundle that you would lay down your life for. Nothing prepares you for the love you'll feel, and you're going to want to be the best mummy you can. Your baby needs you to be fit and healthy, so you WILL do it for you and your baby :heartpump:
Besides, looking at your pregnancy album, it looks to me like your weight gain is mainly down to your bump!!! You really don't look as if YOU have put much on at all!!! So you might find it's not as bad as you thought!
And you must give your body a little time to recover before you go launching yourself back into SW
Although I believe SW is probably one of the safest healthy eating plans you could do. A young lady in my class had her first baby a couple of months ago and has lost around 2 stones already! I think she put on around 5st during her pregnancy. She looks great and so does her son, who she brings to class every week without fail.
And lastly, please stop worrying!!! You shouldn't be thinking about dieting when you have an imminent birth pending lol!!! Enjoy the last weeks of your pregnancy, enjoy the whole birth experience (I enjoyed all 3 of mine!) and enjoy your beautiful new baby!
Please keep in touch too, I'd love to know how you're getting on. And when you're ready to start back up again, I'll help you with your motivation
and you can give me some maintaining tips :whoopass: cos I hope I'll be very close to target by then! :cross:
Take care of BOTH of you
I'm very jealous...I'd love to be starting out again...and I just LOVED being pregnant! Suppose I'm just going to have to make do with the new little puppy we're getting soon...ooh...in 3 weeks actually!!! LOL! Wonder if we'll become mummys on the same day lol!!!