Don't you just hate it when....

[cloud*]

Thought I'd let ya's know....he's ok, in hospital getting loads of tests but basically, he took cramp so bounced out of bed too quick. Instead of sitting back down he hobbled into bathroom, fell over & hit his head. He's in for observation.

 

[jamjar15]

At least he's in the right place hun xx

 

[cloud*]

At least he's in the right place hun xx

That's him out now. Nothing wrong with him, he was just silly

 

[MadameLaMinx]

Doesnt stop those early morning calls being terrifying though. Glad all is well x

 

[bunnylovesalan]

DYJHIW you try something and it does not work out

 

[Birdmummy]

DYJHIW - you make a vegetable syn free curry and it's far to hot !!

 

[solo12]

When you are usually more excited than the kids that the summer holidays are here but due to your sons emotional & violent outbursts (which are happening ALOT at the minute) you are struggling to work out how you're going to get through the next 6 weeks & still make it fun for your daughters who are caught in the crossfire

 

[*Emsie*]

When you are usually more excited than the kids that the summer holidays are here but due to your sons emotional & violent outbursts (which are happening ALOT at the minute) you are struggling to work out how you're going to get through the next 6 weeks & still make it fun for your daughters who are caught in the crossfire

Doyou get any support like respite or are there any playschemes you can get him booked into or the girls so they have a bit of space from each other?I know it is hard to get help.
Any reasons why theres an increase in the outbursts?

 

[solo12]

Doyou get any support like respite or are there any playschemes you can get him booked into or the girls so they have a bit of space from each other?I know it is hard to get help.
Any reasons why theres an increase in the outbursts?

He's being assessed at the minute for autism, anxiety issues & ADHD, not sure what's set off the outbursts as such, he's always done it but it's all the time at minute there nanna is really good and she'll help by taking him or the girls for a couple of hours I just feel guilty sending him when I know how he's behaving! wish my parents would help a bit more but that's life... X

 

[*Emsie*]

He's being assessed at the minute for autism, anxiety issues & ADHD, not sure what's set off the outbursts as such, he's always done it but it's all the time at minute there nanna is really good and she'll help by taking him or the girls for a couple of hours I just feel guilty sending him when I know how he's behaving! wish my parents would help a bit more but that's life... X

At least you have got some support unfortunately some grand/parents just aren't that way inclined! Like my inlaws!
I'd say start kicking up a fuss to your gp etc about how difficult it is to cope not saying you aren't coping but if you don't say you aren't you won't get the help even though it probably wouldn't mean any immediate support but maybe in the future? x

 

[solo12]

At least you have got some support unfortunately some grand/parents just aren't that way inclined! Like my inlaws!
I'd say start kicking up a fuss to your gp etc about how difficult it is to cope not saying you aren't coping but if you don't say you aren't you won't get the help even though it probably wouldn't mean any immediate support but maybe in the future? x

We've been going to CAMHS appointments weekly & I've said I need a diagnosis & support ASAP so we'll see, he's ok when he's at school to break day up its just thought of 24/7 lol he could surprise me and chill out hopefully as he has done before my parents are useless! They won't help with son or youngest daughter (shes Deaf) but are happy to look after my other daughter whose hasn't any medical issues! x

 

[Happy Holidays]

DYJHIW You drop the chilli spice all over the kitchen worktop which goes all over OH breakfast & tea cup which he's got out ready for the morning, there were a few choice words spoken

 

[Birdmummy]

DYJHIW You drop the chilli spice all over the kitchen worktop which goes all over OH breakfast & tea cup which he's got out ready for the morning, there were a few choice words spoken

I think I would have laughed at this if it was me. Chilli Cornflakes anyone ?

 

[jamjar15]

.....when you dribble on your pillow

 

[*Emsie*]

We've been going to CAMHS appointments weekly & I've said I need a diagnosis & support ASAP so we'll see, he's ok when he's at school to break day up its just thought of 24/7 lol he could surprise me and chill out hopefully as he has done before my parents are useless! They won't help with son or youngest daughter (shes Deaf) but are happy to look after my other daughter whose hasn't any medical issues! x

Fingers crossed for a quick diagnosis etc and that he does surprise you and be more chilled out than you think he will be x

 

[*Emsie*]

DYJHIW you see the lady who was your inspiration at your sw group to lose weight and she has put weight back on and its awkward and you don't speak to each other

 

[*Emsie*]

DYJHIW you didn't ask for time off to go to your sons music assembly and you really wish you were going :sigh:and dyjhiw other parents blank you at the school gates probably because of your childs sometimes bad behaviour......must be nice to have perfect kids! Well my kid is perfect to me and some consideration for that would be nice too.

 

[jamjar15]

........it starts bloody raining again! Freshly washed hair + rain = a frizzy mess

 

[Wannabe skinnymini]

DYJHIW one of your good friend's husband gets diagnosed with cancer and you feel completely helpless don't know what to say or do

 

[Arctic-BNG]

You've got excessive gas both ends and need to clear it but are sat in a classroom!