Don't you just hate it when....

When people send you text messages you don't understand (and can't be bothered to try and fathom). Hate text speak, just use words! You don't see people talking without using any vowels do you?!
 
Just reply- "think you must have a translation setting on your text messaging. Please resend in English"
 
When people send you text messages you don't understand (and can't be bothered to try and fathom). Hate text speak, just use words! You don't see people talking without using any vowels do you?!

Arghh, so frustrating. I can appreciate that everyone makes the odd spelling mistake etc and that's fine. But I genually hate when people write "lyk dis". It makes me so angry!
 
dyjhiw me my son & hubby all ill :(
 
Dyjhiw pride literally goes before a fall? Made myself go out for a night run and was feeling all virtuous and proud of myself for doing when I'm so tired, when I fell over in a pothole. One banged up knee and sprained ankle later, I am feeling very sorry for myself!
 
MinkyDinky said:
Was there on Saturday - hope you are ok? Sometimes a cry is needed and screw what everyone else thinks. Chin up hun xx

Meh ill be alright thanks.

Seems so trivial really. My SW class is a Monday night. Missed it last week as hubby was working so was really looking forward to it tonight. Had spoken to my SW buddy earlier and told her I needed a good talking to as not had a good week :(

He then got asked to work tonight and has agreed. Means I have the kids and no car and therefore can't go to class.

Just feel like I'm the house maid sometimes. Think it's the one and only thing I do for me yet I can't :(

Worse thing is, we're struggling money wise, so if he'd have turned the hours down I'd have gone mad too so he couldn't win really.

Just feel a bit like he plays/watches football as and when he pleases, and I know there's games on tv tomorrow and Friday.

Just feeling down I think :'(
 
Meh ill be alright thanks.

Seems so trivial really. My SW class is a Monday night. Missed it last week as hubby was working so was really looking forward to it tonight. Had spoken to my SW buddy earlier and told her I needed a good talking to as not had a good week :(

He then got asked to work tonight and has agreed. Means I have the kids and no car and therefore can't go to class.

Just feel like I'm the house maid sometimes. Think it's the one and only thing I do for me yet I can't :(

Worse thing is, we're struggling money wise, so if he'd have turned the hours down I'd have gone mad too so he couldn't win really.

Just feel a bit like he plays/watches football as and when he pleases, and I know there's games on tv tomorrow and Friday.

Just feeling down I think :'(

Oh dear babes...big hugs! Men! Grrrr!
 
DYJHIW you have one of those days where you are constantly hungry!! Lucky I brought enough SW-friendly bits to snack on with me to the office or it could have all gone horribly wrong!
 
Mrs.S. said:
Meh ill be alright thanks.

Seems so trivial really. My SW class is a Monday night. Missed it last week as hubby was working so was really looking forward to it tonight. Had spoken to my SW buddy earlier and told her I needed a good talking to as not had a good week :(

He then got asked to work tonight and has agreed. Means I have the kids and no car and therefore can't go to class.

Just feel like I'm the house maid sometimes. Think it's the one and only thing I do for me yet I can't :(

Worse thing is, we're struggling money wise, so if he'd have turned the hours down I'd have gone mad too so he couldn't win really.

Just feel a bit like he plays/watches football as and when he pleases, and I know there's games on tv tomorrow and Friday.

Just feeling down I think :'(

Not at all sure how any of this makes you a dick hun. Sounds to me like you & hubs need to spend some time together, preferably without the kids & football. Especially when money is tight it's easy to forgot you should still spend time together.

Your SW buddy will understand. You can follow plan as best as possible, funds permitting etc till next week if needed. Maybe phone your consultant to explain?

Big hug xxx
 
Mrs.S. said:
Meh ill be alright thanks.

Seems so trivial really. My SW class is a Monday night. Missed it last week as hubby was working so was really looking forward to it tonight. Had spoken to my SW buddy earlier and told her I needed a good talking to as not had a good week :(

He then got asked to work tonight and has agreed. Means I have the kids and no car and therefore can't go to class.

Just feel like I'm the house maid sometimes. Think it's the one and only thing I do for me yet I can't :(

Worse thing is, we're struggling money wise, so if he'd have turned the hours down I'd have gone mad too so he couldn't win really.

Just feel a bit like he plays/watches football as and when he pleases, and I know there's games on tv tomorrow and Friday.

Just feeling down I think :'(

Hugs from me too. Think I'd feel the same in your shoes. Could you get to another meeting at a different time? x
 
*Emsie* said:
Dyjhiw you want to enrol on a course but only have until 8pm tonight to raise the funds to pay for it or will have to wait till March and it feels like thats so far away as you could really do with a boost right now

What course & how much do you need? X
 
kingleds said:
Not at all sure how any of this makes you a dick hun. Sounds to me like you & hubs need to spend some time together, preferably without the kids & football. Especially when money is tight it's easy to forgot you should still spend time together.

Your SW buddy will understand. You can follow plan as best as possible, funds permitting etc till next week if needed. Maybe phone your consultant to explain?

Big hug xxx

peacelily said:
Hugs from me too. Think I'd feel the same in your shoes. Could you get to another meeting at a different time? x

Thanks ladies. It's just the one thing I like to do. To be me. He does bath and bed for the kids and I then come home, refreshed and full of vigour for the plan and have a chilled few hours before bed.

Peacelily, I'm gonna sound really childish and poutish now, but I don't want to go to another group. I've gone to my own for a couple of years and feel like they're mostly my friends. Also. Why should I go.

I think I'm just hormonal and maybe need to go to bed and wake up refreshed?

And Sarah, I totally see what you're saying, but the time together really isn't an issue. It's time for me, to be me, and not be wife/mother/maid. Not that any of those things are things I want to change (maid maybe!!), but I just feel like I don't have a life? Maybe not helped as I'm still off work after op.

Just had a thought though, he didn't work extra hours Friday night when they asked because of the England game??! Hmmmmm.
 
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