Can't believe it's been so long since I posted here, or anywhere on Minis actually. I visit every single day, but something seems to have stopped me from joining in just lately.
Well my latest update is that I'm still hanging around my target weight (4.25lbs above it at my last weight in), but I do feel like I'm only hanging on by the skin of my teeth. Not because I can't control/monitor what I'm eating, just because whenever I try eating at a normal calorie level (albeit low 'normal') I seem to have a gain
Take last week for example.
My calories each day averaged over the week as 1330, but this involved one 3000 calorie day (Indian take-away) and at least two/three 800 calorie days to compensate. I thought I'd be safe at that, especially as the 3000 calorie day was only the day after my previous weigh-in. Sadly not - I gained again for the third week running
Maybe I've just messed my metabolism up after being on a VLCD for so long, but I have a few other medical symptoms going on too (constant tiredness, lethargy, feeling cold, poor sleep, unhappy, dry skin/nails) so I'm in the process of getting my thyroid checked out, just in case it's that. I seriously doubt it, but you never know. I just find it hard to accept that I can't enjoy a take away on a Saturday night with my man without gaining weight, even when I cut right back afterwards.
Onto other news (more doom and gloom I'm afraid). I'm also in the process of seeking some support with the psychological side of things, as my obsessive calorie counting, meal planning, and just general thoughts about food seem to have become very out of control and disordered. It's at the point where I feel very anxious in situations when I'm not able to accurately estimate/count my calories, and I find it extremely difficult to be spontaneous....I even weigh out lettuce for my salad and 2g of raisins for my porridge (which works out at about 4 raisins!)
Food seems to be on mind to the point that it invades every part of my day pretty much, but particularly time when I'm alone/driving/generally trying to relax. I'm even at the stage now where I've had to start reading a book that I've already read - because I know my mind will wander too much to follow a completely new story.
I know I need to challenge these obsessive thoughts, and that it isn't natural to need so much control, to record, plan and think about food as much as I do. Unfortunately, my body isn't giving me the evidence that I CAN relax the rules and habits I've developed lately. If I'm gaining when I'm being as meticulous as I am now, what happens if I loosen the reins?
Anyway, I'm resisting dropping my calories any further, but it's my birthday in about three weeks and I desperately want to be back beneath my goal. I know how unhappy I'll be knowing that whatever I'm eating then is taking me further and further away from where I want to be. It'll also cause tension between me and The Man, because he doesn't really understand this stuggle I'm going through, and will just want us to enjoy ourselves (it's his birthday the day before mine). So the plan is to weigh in tomorrow, see where I am then (hopefully a bit lighter) and take it from there.
My bloods were done this morning, and I have a number to ring to get the ball rolling with the other stuff, but I think in the short term I'm going to have to have a very strict few weeks (maybe just above VLCD levels) just so I can stay sane for our birthdays.
Well I'm sorry this isn't exactly a chirpy update. I'm trying to cling onto the fact that I'm still within a few lbs of goal four months down the line....which I guess is a miracle for me given my history!
Hope you're all doing well
I'll be back with an update soon x x