that's true clairet my husband says he wouldn't mind if I was 30 stone lol then again it works better if we are doing it for ourselves not because someone says we should,my Dad always ribbed me about my weight growing up & it didn't help although he was only kidding it still hurt like hell.How you getting on with 4 kiddies you getting much sleep? My youngest will not settle after 4am so Im always up early Im actually surprised im not 30 stone tbh xx