Ok, Im sorry but not looking like I will make it over. TBH one of the reasons is that Ive now become a bit woosy about travelling on my own, and also finances are a bit stretched, even though ive paid for my flight.
I was thinking of trying to organise a visit later on and getting oh to come and making a weekend of it.
Really sorry to have messed everyone around, but at least you can pick a time that suits better.
xx