Who's in a hurry anyway? You're better off taking your time than doing it so rushed that you'll have learnt nothing and you'll put it all back on. To be honest, losing weight is a pretty superficial thing to do if you think about it, other than health issues etc but usually that's not people's main motivation. There are other more important things in life and sometimes they just have to come first and you put other projects to the side cos that's just how it is. Keep faith Gem, you're in no rush. All in good time x