Hazel's rough food diary

God only just caught up on all this! Glad you got your little cat back but sorry to hear about all the trouble with your husband :( You and your kids are the most important thing, theyll always be there with you and you for them, forget the men :( keep in there xxx :)
 
silly sausage said:
Brilliant news about your pussycat girl!! xxx

Is your little lad stressed about the atmosphere at home? Horrible situation all round. Hope you find a solution soon.
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No he is just at that age where he has the odd accident. Kids are happy still thankfully. Xx
 
Ali* said:
Hey sweet - keep strong (((Hugs)))

2 weeks away might give you the head space you need. Will he be back at weekends or is he away for the whole time?

xx
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He's away for the whole time. Thing is he is always away which I think is the problem. We have drifted very far apart or should I say he has. Nothing in common anymore and not enough time together to sort through things. Xxx
 
Thanks so much people for the support. To be honest you guys are all the support I got at the minute. I'm not kidding. I don't get out so being online is my only lifeline. I really do appreciate you all but I'm going to shut up now in case i start crying.

Little lad asked for more food tonight after his tea and pudding whilst I was washing up and I said " go and ask your dad. I'm not doing everything". Hubby then td me to shut up and if j needed help with the washing up i should ask. He has misheard what I had said but I flipped and screamed" don't tell me to shut up!!!!!" he did apologise so that's fair. Just can't talk or say anything to him in case he flips at me for something. At the same time I am still trying to bear with him as he is mega stressed etc.

I need to know what to do if he does leave me though so i can be prepared. I havnt got a clue. Who do I ring for help???
 
craftylucyloo said:
Indeed babe. I need a night like that to let my hair down!
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oooh ooh ooh,can i come too please,havnt had a nite out for ages x


aaw hun its not nice feeling like this is it,im not sure realy who you would phone to see where you stand...citizens advise? wish i could help you more i really do wish i could be there to give you a cuddle,theres no worse feeling than feeling alone....

next week when hes gone try to sort a few things out..see where you stand,give you some time to think about what to do,what you want xxxx sendings hugs hun xxx
 
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Thanks hun. I just want my husband back :(

No I have no clue who to phone. I'm not sure how it works financially as I am not working and have two young kids to look after. Might need to go back to work but I was a teacher and I dread the thought of going back there after 6/7 years out of it.
 
Friday 5th August

Breakfast - 1/2 melon

Costa coffee iced skinny decaf latte (HEA)

Lunch - 2 slices toast (HEB) with 2 lots of cheese melted (HEA + HEB) with tom puree and ham.

Tea - hubby wnats a takeaway and a bottle of wine but Ill be good and opt for veg curry and boiled rice and maybe just 1 glass of wine although I could do without that really - not really a wine drinker. syns 10 for curry
 
Hi Lucyloo. Sorry to butt in, but I just read this and it makes me sad...

Hubby then td me to shut up and if j needed help with the washing up i should ask. He has misheard what I had said but I flipped and screamed" don't tell me to shut up!!!!!" he did apologise so that's fair.
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But it's not fair. Not fair on your wee lad to witness such a thing. My parents had a volatile relationship and it affects me negatively even now decades later. I sincerely hope that you find a peaceful solution soon and not (as my parents did) flog a dead horse for years in front of your son as it will damage him. Lots of hugs.
 
I'm sorry to hear what happened to you but i can't help feeling judged and condemned by what you said. Please don't compare my situ with your parents as everybody's different and my kids are very happy and to imply that they will end up having psychological problems because of a spat between their parents is ludicrous and not very helpful sorry. I opened up on here and made myself quite vulnerable as I needed the support not judgment.

Moving on.......
 
Heya, just checking back in.

So sorry to hear it still isn't going well for you :( In terms of the practicalities if you do decide to split, then Citizens Advice is your best port of call. They will help you work out what to do. In terms of emotionally, your GP might be able to help by pointing you towards a friendly ear, but otherwise, I don't think there is much else.

I hope you can both sort it out though. I know what you mean, saying you want your husband back. Talking to him about it would help, but if he isn't prepared to, then I'm not sure what you would do :(

But it's not good him telling you to shut up. Fair enough he misheard you, but at least he apologised. I guess you need to take time to work out in your own mind what you want, and what you need. If you think you could both work through it, then go for it.
 
craftylucyloo said:
Saturday 6th

Breakfast: weetabix minis ( heb) milk( hea) half a melon

Lunch:

Tea:
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Lunch - beef savoury rice and 2 egg omelette bit of encona hot pepper sauce

Tea - sweet pot wedges, spicy hummous, corn on cob.

Definitely been a green day and got no veggies or much fruit in so haven't had very much superspeed with it. Weigh in tomorrow. Just hope i have lost that holiday weight.

x
 
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