lucylis
Full Member
Personlly hun I would just admit you are on a diet and be proud of it! ask for a large glass of water and ice for your shake ;-)
One thing I have learnt from doing this diet is that we have to take ownership of our actions and we cant blame anyone else! Its so easy for me to say I cant do this cos i am stressed or I am wound up by whoever or I have a party to go to but then I am the one who puts food in my mouth and only I can stop that!
I was invited to a party on sun..day after i started and I tried to think of excuses why I couldn't go as I couldn't eat.... then i thought hang on, I am proud of me for doing this and I am certainly not embarrassed so I went and informed them I was on this diet and as such couldn't eat and would only drink water... and you know what it was so liberating and boosted my confidence no end! when every one was complimenting me on my fab will power and determination! and it felt good to resist as I know I will finally get the weight loss I deserve x
One thing I have learnt from doing this diet is that we have to take ownership of our actions and we cant blame anyone else! Its so easy for me to say I cant do this cos i am stressed or I am wound up by whoever or I have a party to go to but then I am the one who puts food in my mouth and only I can stop that!
I was invited to a party on sun..day after i started and I tried to think of excuses why I couldn't go as I couldn't eat.... then i thought hang on, I am proud of me for doing this and I am certainly not embarrassed so I went and informed them I was on this diet and as such couldn't eat and would only drink water... and you know what it was so liberating and boosted my confidence no end! when every one was complimenting me on my fab will power and determination! and it felt good to resist as I know I will finally get the weight loss I deserve x