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[andju]

Hello everyone im just starting on slim and save had my delivery today. I have done 2 weeks using up my old cambridge packs and am into the plan so feeling positive. In October I had a car accident and was unable to work for a few weeks after damaging my shoulder, I had my own business which I have since lost due to several unexpected events ....on boxing day i ruptured my achilles tendon which also took me straight out of work, i had surgery and am just starting to walk again but its 6 months to a year recovery, 2 weeks ago my husband of 14 years told me he no longer loved me, cleared his wardrobe left his front door key and wedding ring and walked out of the door.I have been in a very dark and lonely place, but ive dusted myself off and taken control of the one thing no one can take away from me.....my focus on losing weight! x

 

[miss vlcd38]

Omg what a horrible time you have had lately. Im glad you are doing so well with your diet even though such a rough time.

How much have you lost so far?

Keep your chin up better things are on the way

 

[andju]

Hi thankyou im still pretty down about it all but this is giving me a bit of a lift i have lost a stone so far ive just ordered another months worth in today so onwards and upwards, if i can concentrate on this it will really help a lot x

 

[miss vlcd38]

A stone thats fantastic yes you concentrate on the good. Have you got a goal date in mind or just see how it goes?

 

[andju]

well im hoping by about september, i want to shift another 4 stone then start looking to maintain ive never done that bit properly before plus when i did it before my husband was never supportive he didnt like me doing the diet and losing weight i think he always thought i would run off and leave him...ironic really lol x

 

[miss vlcd38]

Well men get like that I met mine when I was size 18-20 hes like mega fit n good looking I thought omg ill go home now dont stand a chance here ha ha. Anyway I did the diet last year went from size 18-20 down to a 12 he doesnt want me any smaller. So I stayed that size from april last year onwards and now hes come to terns with it time to go smaller they get insecure. But just keep telling yourself its his loss your gonna lose all this weight and be beating the men off you with a stick

 

[kelly22_1]

hello andju!

you sound really positive....also sounds like you've had your share of problems so we'll have no more of them onwards and downwards(weight wise) so to speak.being separated is cr@p i know i married my 1st husband at 19 years old (im 32 now) and he left me 7 months later for his boss at work have to admit i was distrought(sp) but i dusted myself off as you have and 3 months later had a new man, he turned out to be a mummys boy though lol, met another man 3 years after i got divorced remarried and i'm happily divorced now after 7 years :-D he was a lazy unsupportive moron anyway! been with my current boyfriend 2 & half years we have a little boy together he's 11 months old now, i have 4 other kids aswell so busy life for me, tiring to lol, i'm hoping to lose about 3 st to take my total to 5 stone.

so it's lovely to meet you i'm kelly im 32 from sheffield and i'm starting s&s on monday morning and i cant wait, boyfriend hasnt muttered a word about me doing it he said if it makes me happy hes happy :-D x

 

[andju]

Thankyou ladies and kelly nice to meet you good luck with your start on monday x