Kissme, i understand what your saying.
Joes only jobs are to take out the bins and he washes up, i do all the cooking, cleaning, the laundry, sorting out bills and other things.. i dont mind having a bigger share of things than him as he works very long hours and gets paid very well for it, as i only work 3 days a week and even then i finish at 3, i am more than happy.
however, no ribbon shall grace my hair, so dustcloth will be ran over the table just in case.. and im sure as hell not gunna smack a smile on my face, and act all 'gay' if iv had a bad day. Problems are for sharing. LOL