I hate what songs do sometimes... (sensitive)

[gonnadoithistime]

I agreee Di its lovely to be able to come on here and get support and help with other stuff not just weight! SO sorry for the loss of your sister treats! I agree there are lots of emotions in us i find myself just crying over my mum and i am 36 now was 13 when she died! but it just comes over you doesnt it, i dont know what i would do if i lost my sister she has been lije a mum to me i ahve 3 sisters but one whos eldest and brought me up when mum died! load of love to you all Lisaxx

 

[Treats]

I agreee Di its lovely to be able to come on here and get support and help with other stuff not just weight! SO sorry for the loss of your sister treats! I agree there are lots of emotions in us i find myself just crying over my mum and i am 36 now was 13 when she died! but it just comes over you doesnt it, i dont know what i would do if i lost my sister she has been lije a mum to me i ahve 3 sisters but one whos eldest and brought me up when mum died! load of love to you all Lisaxx

Well I have to say my world fell apart... completely lost.. shattered... even today.. my wedding anniversary.. I am sat here in tears thinking my lovely Sis spent this day with me and I will never get another like it with her.

I am a very strong believer in telling those you love that you love them. I nearly lost my father within two weeks of my sister passing.. he had a heart and the specialist said it was the shock. I took him back with me to Germany after the funeral and he was so lost and in pain I could see it in his eyes.. my hero my father was crushed and this tore me apart. He ended up in hospital again with another heart attack.

I thought would this ever end.. this pain and torture. Eventually he was allowed home to me but on this day I rang my husband to pick us up and he said he would be the house was on fire.. then I got a call to say my brother had been in an accident..it was coming from all directions. I just wanted to wrap my whole family in cotton wool and keep them all safe.

Even flying back from the UK after taking my father back to the UK... I held my brother up only about 30 seconds or so and he was going mad saying come on we have to go to the airport... and I am so glad I did.. we got stuck on the M25 and we were only 4 cars from a massive pile up.. it was horrific... something I will never forget and I went cold thinking it could have been me and my twin in that.

Of course I missed my flight ended up having a panic attack and the paramedics were called... when I finally got back to Germany I was to sit my teachers exam... I went in with no hopes and sat there thinking all that had happened in the last few weeks and wasn't motivated till I felt my sister..I passed with flying colours... I don't know how... but I think she was there to make sure I didn't loose my father... that my brother and I didn't end up in the pile up and get me through my exam.

Oh wow...couldn't think that storyline up for a book could you! Sorry to offload.. guess not a good day eh!

 

[BrittW]

Off load all the way hun, whatever makes you feel better xxx

 

[Treats]

Off load all the way hun, whatever makes you feel better xxx

Sorry was a bit deep wasn't it...

 

[Annie68]

Sending you big virtual hugs.

It is very hard when you lose someone you love so much, as everyone else who has posted has already said. I lost my dad 4 years ago, and I was closer to my dad than my mum. It still gouges a great hole inside me every time something unexpected makes me think of him, but I know that he would only want me to be happy and not reach for the biscuits. Just think how bad you'd feel if you'd had a good old comfort eat. You might have felt good eating them but imagine the guilt afterwards. No good being upset about two things.

more virtual hugs xxxx

 

[BrittW]

*Hugs greatly received* xxx