Thats just not right, you are very beautiful woman who need to be pampered, woman need to be pampered whatever they look like. I do not understand men who do not. I know the confidence thing has gone out the window but you are definately worthy, everybody is worthy and being a woman even more worthy than us dudes.
What you are then saying is that we are just complimenting you girls because we feel we have to or because we want something, no darn it we do it because we mean it and want to. It sems it is all in vain. Poor guys.