I didn't know they were 120 calories. That's pretty close to the Alevere and similar ones you can buy online, the dietimeal shakes. The shakes are around 100 with 18g of protein and under 4g carbs- with ones that are a bit higher limited to 3 a week or 1 a day depending. I like both as they are 5 times a day - so I'm never more than 2-4 hours from a shake/bar or whatever.
My sister has noticed - she's been lovely. She's an overweight size 18. I see why - drinks every evening - good food - with lots of carbs and fat and protein. Portion sizes only a little too big. No protein at breakfast. It's interesting observing how people's normal make them fat.
She said how good it was that I was looking so good as I'm job hunting. I certainly think people are prejudiced against fat people. And now I am an old fat person!! I've fund out there are "age positive" employers. I had expected to retire next year - but now my retirement age is 7 years later. I can't afford to go now. Grrrrrrrrr.
Aww I’m glad your sister is supportive. Some people can be so negative towards TFR. I’m lucky as my husband is supportive and so is my lovely Mum (I’m very blessed as I see my family a few times a week as they literally live about 800 yards from me). My Mum started Exante but fell off the wagon, bless her - trying to get her back on it as she will feel so much better for it. My Dad was on it too.... but he kept eating haha. My brothers know I’m on a food replacement and avoid offering me food and I’ve not told my sister.
Job hunting - where are you? I’m near Cambridge.
I know what you mean and I find it such a shame that people are judged on their appearance
I worked with a lady a few years ago and she scrutinised absolutely everything I ate!! (I wasnt big at the time), she asked me if I had an “eating problem” because I ate fruit and Greek yoghurt for breakfast??!! She also told me once how “great it was” to see me eat burger and chips..... okay love, if you’ve got nothing better to do than observe what I eat
Honestly.
I also know people who won’t compliment on your weight loss as they’re jealous. It’s such a shame. Why can’t people just be happy for others? And if you’ve not got anything nice to say then don’t say anything at all.
I used to work with another lady who was struggling to find a job - she was overweight but happy as she was and one of the loveliest people, plus she had about 3 degrees!
Do you mind me asking what job your looking for? (Assuming you don’t mind putting it on here). I wish you all the best and hope you find what you’re looking for
I believe everything happens for a reason, so if it hasn’t worked out yet Ali, a better opportunity is out there for you. That said, I do know how soul destroying it is when you don’t get a call back or get turned down - a little like dating urgh.
xxx