Yes hope your cold fingers get better Kieran
Well done on the 10000 steps too liz, if that's your name
As for the shapes and sizes thing..., I was worried about posting my fat pic on my own thread but thought... When I see other people's fat pics I just don't really think anything. I guess I just respect that person because they are doing something about it and then I forget about it . so although I'm so big I should have my own postcode, I'm sure when people saw it they may have been a little surprised but then thought nothing else. We all see ourselves differently. I'll give you an example, my sister had a baby recently and I took the most wonderful photo of her and her baby looking at eachother, a lovely tender moment. Loads of people have commented on what a lovely special picture it is bla bla. My sister said - omg look at my spots
I hadn't noticed them and neither had anyone else, but as she's so conscious of them, it's the first thing she noticed.
So when somebody sees us or meets us, well me, I may well think, omg I'm huge, are my love handles on show, are my boobs tucked in to my bra, does my bum stick out etc.... And the other person is just concentrating on how wonderful my personality is, and it is pretty darn wonderful
It's taken alot for me to think like this, but you just gotta think how you'd be if you met or saw someone who was the same as you. And most probably, you wouldn't bat an eyelid! Xx
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