Martha's Diary - seeing it through to the end....

[Mememe]

Eugh!! My friend phoned in sick cuz she's a hangover!! Cnt get the stuff today I wouldn't mind but her discount will save me £60 so I'm not paying full price when I don't have to but I really wanted the stuff today so I could finish the shopping

Thats rubbish! Chuck your friend lol

You can get everything else sorted and thn this will be last thing ;-)

£60 is worth waiting for - I might have to travel to you to pinch discount like that lol

 

[marthacol1988]

Thats rubbish! Chuck your friend lol

You can get everything else sorted and thn this will be last thing ;-)

£60 is worth waiting for - I might have to travel to you to pinch discount like that lol

Everything else is sorted il just have to sort the stuff into cases and get that figured out and hopefully she will come with me early nxt week.

£60 is defo worth the wait lol I wasn't going to get the bag but she got offered a proper full time job yesterdat that relates to her degree so she will be leaving and I have to get the bag now or il pay full price

Ah your more than welcome any time stace I'd nearly take over the job myself lol with the lovely stuff they have in accessorize

Xxx

 

[Mememe]

Everything else is sorted il just have to sort the stuff into cases and get that figured out and hopefully she will come with me early nxt week.

£60 is defo worth the wait lol I wasn't going to get the bag but she got offered a proper full time job yesterdat that relates to her degree so she will be leaving and I have to get the bag now or il pay full price

Ah your more than welcome any time stace I'd nearly take over the job myself lol with the lovely stuff they have in accessorize

Xxx

Your very organised!

you must get the bag. You will only want it later if you don't and fed worth £60 saving!

think might cost be a few hundred pound to get to you so maybe the saving wouldn't be worth my while? Ha ha

 

[marthacol1988]

Your very organised!

you must get the bag. You will only want it later if you don't and fed worth £60 saving!

think might cost be a few hundred pound to get to you so maybe the saving wouldn't be worth my while? Ha ha

Lol you wouldn't save much then would ya!

HAVE to get the bag lol that's final haha

I am organised aren't I? Only because there's so much I'm just gonna buy when I get there so it's not so bad and not as much pressure. I've plenty of stuff tho so will just be general bits I've to get.

Just want to fast forward 2 weeks lol so I can really start gettin excited. Ria is off on hol tomorrow for two weeks and the time has just flew in I remember not that long ago she was telling me it was 7 weeks away!

Will u b bk from hol when I get bk? I'm bk the 24th July xx

 

[Mememe]

Lol you wouldn't save much then would ya!

HAVE to get the bag lol that's final haha

I am organised aren't I? Only because there's so much I'm just gonna buy when I get there so it's not so bad and not as much pressure. I've plenty of stuff tho so will just be general bits I've to get.

Just want to fast forward 2 weeks lol so I can really start gettin excited. Ria is off on hol tomorrow for two weeks and the time has just flew in I remember not that long ago she was telling me it was 7 weeks away!

Will u b bk from hol when I get bk? I'm bk the 24th July xx

yes very organised! But yes you get to buy lots of lovely new things on holidays!

2 weeks will fly by now! Wow tomorrow how long is she gone for?

i go on 13th and back on 20th (my birthday on 19th whilst away) so cute Rhys keeps telling oh that he has to make me a birthday cake and buy balloons - that will be a trip to Asda for him whilst we are away lol he's really good like that though so sure be spoilt.

So your leaving me soon then! Selfish mare ha ha

 

[marthacol1988]

yes very organised! But yes you get to buy lots of lovely new things on holidays!

2 weeks will fly by now! Wow tomorrow how long is she gone for?

i go on 13th and back on 20th (my birthday on 19th whilst away) so cute Rhys keeps telling oh that he has to make me a birthday cake and buy balloons - that will be a trip to Asda for him whilst we are away lol he's really good like that though so sure be spoilt.

So your leaving me soon then! Selfish mare ha ha

She's gone for 2 weeks lol she will be bk the day before I go.

Stacey I will be on this site more than you are expecting lol I won't be able to stay away!!

Ah ul have a lovely time away and a special birthday I'm sure

Xx

 

[Mememe]

She's gone for 2 weeks lol she will be bk the day before I go.

Stacey I will be on this site more than you are expecting lol I won't be able to stay away!!

Ah ul have a lovely time away and a special birthday I'm sure

Xx

You had better be! Lol you'll be having too much fun

yeh I can't wait. Rhys asks everyday when we are going bless. Think he is most excited that he gets to watch his DVD in the car! Lol and I love birthdays, never about us anymore with kids but I love it jut the same x

 

[marthacol1988]

You had better be! Lol you'll be having too much fun

yeh I can't wait. Rhys asks everyday when we are going bless. Think he is most excited that he gets to watch his DVD in the car! Lol and I love birthdays, never about us anymore with kids but I love it jut the same x

Don't you worry il be around! I promise lol

Awh dear love him! They love the car DVDs dont they!

I love birthdays too evn tho I no longer blow out the candles lol that's Emily's job! Haha but she loves it all the same xx

 

[Mememe]

Don't you worry il be around! I promise lol

Awh dear love him! They love the car DVDs dont they!

I love birthdays too evn tho I no longer blow out the candles lol that's Emily's job! Haha but she loves it all the same xx

Good! Don't know what I would do otherwise lol

Ive got enough candles for all of us ;-) lol x

 

[Gemma_Charlotte]

Hey just thought I'd let you all know how my weigh in went... lost 3lbs since monday, so i'm actually really pleased!! Only 3lbs to go till I've lost three stone, really hope i'll be able to do it before my next weigh in!

Hope you all have a great day xxx

 

[Mememe]

Hey just thought I'd let you all know how my weigh in went... lost 3lbs since monday, so i'm actually really pleased!! Only 3lbs to go till I've lost three stone, really hope i'll be able to do it before my next weigh in!

Hope you all have a great day xxx

Fantastic!! Well done x

 

[marthacol1988]

Good! Don't know what I would do otherwise lol

Ive got enough candles for all of us ;-) lol x

Haha keeps them occupied

Just got a txt from my sis saying she isn't going out for her birthday now as her and mum have had a fall out. It's my best friends birthday too so il still have to go but I hate all this nonsense everytime there's a night out

My mum and sis clash all the time. My sis is head strong and just wouldn't go rather than resolve the issue. Mum would mind izaak if Katie was going out as she is a single mum. Mum goes to her caravan with her partner every weekend and I know she didn't really want her going out on a Saturday. Plus my sis doesn't like my mums partner ( nvr met him and he's a lovely man) so mum can't bring izaak with her. Very stubborn family I have it's frustrates me to no end lol duno what I'm going to do nxt week now

X

 

[marthacol1988]

Hey just thought I'd let you all know how my weigh in went... lost 3lbs since monday, so i'm actually really pleased!! Only 3lbs to go till I've lost three stone, really hope i'll be able to do it before my next weigh in!

Hope you all have a great day xxx

Gem that's great!! Well done

3 pounds to 3 stone is amazing!! You will do it no prob. You off for ur pamper sesh now? Lol hope you have a lovely evening tonight!!!

Xx

 

[Mememe]

Haha keeps them occupied

Just got a txt from my sis saying she isn't going out for her birthday now as her and mum have had a fall out. It's my best friends birthday too so il still have to go but I hate all this nonsense everytime there's a night out

My mum and sis clash all the time. My sis is head strong and just wouldn't go rather than resolve the issue. Mum would mind izaak if Katie was going out as she is a single mum. Mum goes to her caravan with her partner every weekend and I know she didn't really want her going out on a Saturday. Plus my sis doesn't like my mums partner ( nvr met him and he's a lovely man) so mum can't bring izaak with her. Very stubborn family I have it's frustrates me to no end lol duno what I'm going to do nxt week now

X

my family is a nightmare and therefore I don't have anything to do with most of them and they've never met my boys. Best advice can give you is you do what pleases you; what's next for YOU and leave everything else. Regardless of what you do you can't resolve anything and given the types of people they are to you, you'll be the one fretting more than they ever will and sounds like they will blow up and sort out at a later date anyway. Let them get on with it and you be happy! Just stay diplomatic with any messages or do what I do and tell them sort themselves ;-)

you and your family (Emily and Marty) are priority and anyone else welcome along for the ride! That's my moto ;-)

 

[badkat84]

Great advice! My H2B family are causing us nothing but grief, we keep trying and trying with them, but in all honesty ince this wedding is fine I think that's going to be it. It gets to a point where u have to just accept some people are just bad eggs. It's so hard when it's family as u ment to get along. Sadly this is not always the case. For us it's very much a case if if u were not family we would not associate with u, also the way they treat us means u don't need enemy's! Lol

It's hard too when ur in the middle as u feel pulled about.

This whole weight issue for me also ties in to people's behaviours, if I can make scarifies and changes I need to associate with people who are will to do the same in return. Xxx

 

[marthacol1988]

my family is a nightmare and therefore I don't have anything to do with most of them and they've never met my boys. Best advice can give you is you do what pleases you; what's next for YOU and leave everything else. Regardless of what you do you can't resolve anything and given the types of people they are to you, you'll be the one fretting more than they ever will and sounds like they will blow up and sort out at a later date anyway. Let them get on with it and you be happy! Just stay diplomatic with any messages or do what I do and tell them sort themselves ;-)

you and your family (Emily and Marty) are priority and anyone else welcome along for the ride! That's my moto ;-)

Yea I know your right. We don't talk to a lot of Martys family either especially his mother but that's a whole other convo.

They will sort it its just so annoying and I don't want to ask my friend if she wants to amend the plans as it will be for her birthday incase Katie changes her mind last minute (which happens often) so il wait and see.

Marty and em are defo my priority. They have to be. I'm pretty laid bk anyway and don't like arguments running for long so if I fall out with you it will most likely be resolved within the hour because I like talking things out haha

 

[marthacol1988]

Great advice! My H2B family are causing us nothing but grief, we keep trying and trying with them, but in all honesty ince this wedding is fine I think that's going to be it. It gets to a point where u have to just accept some people are just bad eggs. It's so hard when it's family as u ment to get along. Sadly this is not always the case. For us it's very much a case if if u were not family we would not associate with u, also the way they treat us means u don't need enemy's! Lol

It's hard too when ur in the middle as u feel pulled about.

This whole weight issue for me also ties in to people's behaviours, if I can make scarifies and changes I need to associate with people who are will to do the same in return. Xxx

Exactly kat it's really frustrating when it's family and you are forced into being together regularly. My family is very close and we see each other almost every day. Which can cause tension in itself to be fair lol

Hopefully things get resolved on both our ends just for the sake of a peaceful life.

 

[Mememe]

My oh is 1 of 6 and the only one we spoke to passes away last year. The others are a waste of space plus all their kids. And his mum well that's another story too lol that would take me an evening and 2/3 bottles of wine ;-)

my family my mum is 1 of 6 as well and I only speak to my 1 uncle and his family and my grandparents and sister of course but that it. No cousins nothing. Waste of space and twice as stupid ;-) ha ha

 

[marthacol1988]

My oh is 1 of 6 and the only one we spoke to passes away last year. The others are a waste of space plus all their kids. And his mum well that's another story too lol that would take me an evening and 2/3 bottles of wine ;-)

my family my mum is 1 of 6 as well and I only speak to my 1 uncle and his family and my grandparents and sister of course but that it. No cousins nothing. Waste of space and twice as stupid ;-) ha ha

Family can be such a pain in the arse. I too would need a few bottles to discuss the MIL law but as far as I'm concerned she doesn't exist. His dad remarried a girl 16 years younger and that is who Emily's Granny is lol mind you she's in her early 30's and it took a while to get used to but she loves it now lol

Xxx

 

[Gemma_Charlotte]

Fantastic!! Well done x

Thanks hun, gives me some more motivation for next week hope your having a good day xx