Guys in general tend to lose quicker then girls anyway.
Maybe see where you are by week 6 hun and then see how you feel.
That is what I have decided will do get to week 6 or week 8 or week 10 n then decided.
Will also use Cambridge and 5:2 or 4:3 which is three 500 day cals rather then two as my options for me to lose weight as I know these three options definitely work.
This time round I feel like I am more in control and not just seeing the vlcd as be all and end all.
Slimming world and WW is something I just cant do so not even going to attempt to dabble in them two unless I grow in confidence with either one.
But for my actual weight loss journey will be using Cambridge and the fasting options as it makes me relaxed and not having to cal count as much on non fast days or count syns etc. Might use some of the sw meals for non fast days but would never be able to follow slimming world to lose weight.
We are here to support each other for sure but I have also reaslied I have come to a point in life where I have a better understanding of what works for me and yeah there are moments where I think life is short and is not realistic to live off powdered stuff forever - may take a few weeks or months or a year or two but its human nature to want food as food as much as I hate to say is easily associated with socialising its just one of those things.
Even after something like rock climbing one would want to eat after that lol whether its a sandwich or a full sit down meal or picnic.
My sister passed second year her first question when can we go and have a meal lol when you go the movies I don't know about you but my weakness is for sure nachos at the movies it just doesn't feel right otherwise so suppose its a good thing don't go there often haha.
Good luck hun we are all here for each other - and think that is what I love about this forum.
For me it would be also money element if I thought it would get to a point where its starting to get too expensive n not seeing the results I want then that another factor that would make me want to switch over to 5:2 as the fast days you can buy soups for like a pound which will fill u up from aldi for the fast days or ready meals again from aldi.
I love Cambridge or any VLCD but at the same time like you have said even though every one has different results the results want to be seen I am more of a visual person so for me definitely more about the sizes and would be happy seeing tens on clothes as well as on the scales.
As bad as it sounds I also don't think would have the patience to work up the steps either but that is something I would take as my own personal risk.
I hope this helps that you are not alone that we all have thoughts like that but if you have a option b then it doesn't feel as bad or daunting or overwhelming.
hugs you are doing well when is your wedding?
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