I found the same with the nurse at my surgery at first as they see so many people on xen lose & then put it a back on they don't have faith in us but mine admitted about 6 months ago that I was proof that if you are really serious it will work. I lost under 3 stone while on it & the rest on my own & apart from at most just over a stone gain the rest has stayed off
How long were you on the xen for Lexie ? You have fantastically well on your own x