Thanks Sparklie. Its good to see someone's on the same wave length. wow 3 so young, you must be superwoman. I would love another baby but not til i'm in a healthy bmi, i really want to experience a pregnancy where i dont get discriminated against for my weight. So far so good, I've only the baby today, the toddler is in nursery so I've been doing housework and just had my first shake and 1 litre of water so far. going well up to now. Just got to stay strong.