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[nessa123]

Hi hun. I'm a bit behind with diaries today, so just popping in to say well done on your WI result! Fantastic. Shame about the situation with your friend, but I think you're right to leave the ball in her court for a while. New baby hormones might be having an effect too?? Thing is, if you have to keep being the one putting the effort in, you might end up feeling even more resentful and banging your head against a brick wall. That could spoil the friendship even more. Perhaps after a while, if she hasn't been in touch, you could let her know how disappointed you are that she seems to have 'gone cold' on the friendship.

One thought though - is your success on the diet part of it? Is she maybe a bit jealous about your success - especially as she has just had a baby and is probably getting used to the changes in her own body? Or maybe your success and enthusiasm and the positive feelings you are getting from losing the weight have changed the dynamics of the relationship in some way. (OMG, how very Dr Phil! ) Even though on the surface she may feel very supportive, sometimes underneath people feel threatened by it when other people change or make positive changes in their life. I don't know your friend of course, but just a thought...

Hey Hun thanks for catching up and thanks for the advice I really hope it isn't the weight thing as about 5 years ago she had a gastric bypass and and dropped 6 stone fairly quickly so she knows how it is on the other side of it if that makes sence.
I will just let things lie and see what happens xxx

 

[nessa123]

WOW! Fantastic change in the photos! Well done hun. xxx

Thankyou I can really see the difference now!! After the last couple of weeks of not really feeling 100% dedicated those photos are gonna make me turn this around!! I'm excited and ready for the next 3 stone!! Xx

 

[moonwatcher]

Hey Hun thanks for catching up and thanks for the advice I really hope it isn't the weight thing as about 5 years ago she had a gastric bypass and and dropped 6 stone fairly quickly so she knows how it is on the other side of it if that makes sence.
I will just let things lie and see what happens xxx

Ah right well maybe not then. Unless the fact you have done it 'on your own' so to speak is niggling? Anyway I'm probably right off track. Hope it sorts itself out, or you manage to sort it with her one way or another.

 

[moonwatcher]

Thankyou I can really see the difference now!! After the last couple of weeks of not really feeling 100% dedicated those photos are gonna make me turn this around!! I'm excited and ready for the next 3 stone!! Xx

Yay! Go Nessa, GO!

 

[Chellywelly]

LOL no mrs Claus suit is complete without the hat!! Xx

Exactly you look amazing in that photo hun! You've lost loads I wish I'd of done that idea I never feel like I've lost anything lol xx

 

[charlie's~mummy]

Wow hun the difference in the pics! Well done! Xx

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[nessa123]

Exactly you look amazing in that photo hun! You've lost loads I wish I'd of done that idea I never feel like I've lost anything lol xx

Thankyou. The first 2 and a half stone I lost I didn't feel any differant at all so I was so grateful for the pictures. I've finally dropped a dress size now. I wish I had took measurements too xx

 

[nessa123]

Wow hun the difference in the pics! Well done! Xx

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Thanks Hun xx

 

[stef2009]

Wow hun what a difference well done you!!!!

I was the same I didn't feel a difference until 3 stone then I was like wow I've lost weight lol

Keep up the good work!!! Xxxx

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[nessa123]

Wow hun what a difference well done you!!!!

I was the same I didn't feel a difference until 3 stone then I was like wow I've lost weight lol

Keep up the good work!!! Xxxx

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Thanks Hun. It's the boost I needed for sure xx

 

[nessa123]

Fruit salad for supper yum!!
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[Jaly]

Wow! You look fantastic Ness! x Hope you enjoyed the fruit salad!

 

[nessa123]

Ah right well maybe not then. Unless the fact you have done it 'on your own' so to speak is niggling? Anyway I'm probably right off track. Hope it sorts itself out, or you manage to sort it with her one way or another.

You might be right though, I didnt think about the fact that It could be because I'm doing it myself so to speak.
Isn't it strange sometimes though how you think the people who will be most proud of you can be the ones who are least supportive!
But I'm doing this for me and my children and to have a better quality of life and nothing is gonna stop me!! Xxx

 

[nessa123]

Wow! You look fantastic Ness! x Hope you enjoyed the fruit salad!

Thanks Hun it was delicious xx

 

[Purpled]

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[nessa123]

Here to follow

Welcome xx

 

[bulldogdaisy]

WARNING. I'm getting my tits out again LOL
another stone gone another photo taken!!
3 stone down
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They are differant jeans as I can't find my weighing in ones but you get the idea! Xx

Wow hun you can really see the difference..brilliant stuff,well done :0)

 

[bulldogdaisy]

Fruit salad for supper yum!!
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Yum :0)

 

[bulldogdaisy]

You might be right though, I didnt think about the fact that It could be because I'm doing it myself so to speak.
Isn't it strange sometimes though how you think the people who will be most proud of you can be the ones who are least supportive!
But I'm doing this for me and my children and to have a better quality of life and nothing is gonna stop me!! Xxx

Oh yup it's amazing how people can be,people don't often like change and don't cope well with it!but yup you are doing it for you which is the most important thing and your children :0)

 

[nessa123]

Wow hun you can really see the difference..brilliant stuff,well done :0)

Thanks hun hope you are ok? Xx