SallyVater
Gold Member
My parents had some experience of it; I was at boarding school in the UK whilst they were in Germany. I secretly think they were glad to get rid! My sister then dropped out of uni and moved home and it's taken them several years to get rid of her again.
They always saw it as a great excuse for weekends away to come and visit. Although both of them hate driving in Bristol, so tend to avoid it! Bristol's my home now and I really don't think I could live anywhere else in the UK. I was told in my first week of university that Bristol would become my life, "you might leave, but you'll always come back". So very true... I went half way around the world, but the place I settled when I came back was this crazy old city!
Yes, I can see the advantages of being able to go and visit DS1 but I think it will take me a while to get my head around it! Ah it all just goes to quickly. I remember the day he was born like yesterday and it's SO WEIRD to be saying stuff like that as well...oh God, I'm really getting old!
Nathan & Lydia both moved out in the same week, Lydia just a few streets away which was fine, but Nathan moved to Gloucester I really missed him when he first went, I still do but it's easier, we would stay up at night chatting and putting the world to rights, that is what I miss the most, I've no words of wisdom 'cause it just isn't easy. Lydia is moving to Fuerteventura in June for a minimum of 2 mths I have no idea how I'm going to cope with that, at the moment I see her everyday x
That must have been incredibly tough for you - talk about an instant empty nest. I guess the only way to cope is to be proud that they've grown into independent, brave people who can lead interesting and happy lives - mainly because you obviously did a great job raising them!