ProPoints SammieAnn's WW Food Diary - Count down to Wedding!!!

Evening Ladies!

thank u yes he does look gawjus and i agree he is too small lol his jumper is massive! So we took him and we were given the option to stay today all the parents apart from one mum said they would stay so i was brave n said i would leave him! i helpped him hang his coat up on his little peg!! He give me and carl a kiss and then he jus stood lookin around and he looked so small yet such a big boy and that was it i had to leave coz i was crying :cry:! as we walked pasted i looked in the window and there he was playing with some dinosaurs!
i left him coz this week they are there for an hour but next week its 3 so he needs to no im not there! but while he was there i had a good old walk and earned 3 AP woohooo go sammie lol!
So 11 came went t pick him up and i couldnt see him asked a teacher where he was and he was sat in the middle of the mat with milk and an orange n he dint wanna leave lol! he says he had a nice time but now doesnt wanna go tomorrow so we will see how tomorrow goes! carl wont b with me tomorrow so will be doing it on my own!


ok so food for today

Breakfast..
Grapes 0pp (i couldnt really have breakfast i was nervous)


10.40 ww chocolate bar 2pp


Lunch
pitta 5pp
tuna 3pp
mayo 3
sweetcorn 2pp
egg 2pp


snacks
ww crisps 2pp
ww cookies 2pp

dinner
chicken 5pp
70g rice 7pp
oil 3pp
onion garlice celery peppers babycorn green beans


i have 6 points left might have some ice cream later :D
 
so after me and carl dropped lucas off at school we went for a walk..we have been thinkin about this for a long time really its not something that we have jus decided!
we have decided not to have another baby..
Before i got pregnant with Lucas i dint want kids, and lucas has come along and changed both me and carl for the better to me lucas is the most gawjus lil boy out there he is my world and without him i wouldnt be me! But when lucas was born i was really poorly which made lucas really poorly ( i have group strep b which i no can b treated but still scares me!), then after nearly 2 weeks in hopsital everyone thought i was suffering from PND and i dnt think i was it was jus such a shock and a change and within a month i was fine!
Lucas is an amazing lil boy although at times hard work which any baby boy or girl is and i love him so so much! i am not the most patience of ppl and bein a mum has taught me to be!
but there is so much more we want, since buyin our house we havent been abe to get new windows which we need get new carpets which we need get a new kitchen which we need coz there is only carl workin and we have had a holiday last yr to save for and ow the wedding!
i so badly want a job i want that independance again of going out and earning my own money and bein able to buy stuff with my money! i dnt claim any sort of benifit so it is all down to carl!

i no i am only 25 (26 later this month :D) so i have plenty of time to have children but at the moment we are just happy with the one! i think i hve kept talkin myself into wantin to try get pregnant this year coz some of our friends slag off 1 child families and they forget carl is an only child!
i often ask him did u miss out not havin a brother or sister and he really doesnt think he did! i need to stop worrying about what other ppl think and do what is right for us now! lucas will ave the best life i can give him and i no if he is our only child he will still b so happy. carl said he had really close lad mates and was able to take them to alot of places with him which i wud allow lucas to do!

some of my friends keep on at me to have another baby but my girlfriends dnt realise the cost and how everything is on carl the mortgage the bills the car everything we get for lucas! i think i am happy jus havin one baby as well i jus think i am so wrapped into havin more!

im not sayin never ever if it happens it happens but we arent going to try or anything!

i no some ppl think im bein selfish and stuff but well i suppose i am bein a lil bit but its wat's best for us now....

anyway lol thought i wud share

xxx
 
SammieAnn87 said:
so after me and carl dropped lucas off at school we went for a walk..we have been thinkin about this for a long time really its not something that we have jus decided!
we have decided not to have another baby..
Before i got pregnant with Lucas i dint want kids, and lucas has come along and changed both me and carl for the better to me lucas is the most gawjus lil boy out there he is my world and without him i wouldnt be me! But when lucas was born i was really poorly which made lucas really poorly ( i have group strep b which i no can b treated but still scares me!), then after nearly 2 weeks in hopsital everyone thought i was suffering from PND and i dnt think i was it was jus such a shock and a change and within a month i was fine!
Lucas is an amazing lil boy although at times hard work which any baby boy or girl is and i love him so so much! i am not the most patience of ppl and bein a mum has taught me to be!
but there is so much more we want, since buyin our house we havent been abe to get new windows which we need get new carpets which we need get a new kitchen which we need coz there is only carl workin and we have had a holiday last yr to save for and ow the wedding!
i so badly want a job i want that independance again of going out and earning my own money and bein able to buy stuff with my money! i dnt claim any sort of benifit so it is all down to carl!

i no i am only 25 (26 later this month :D) so i have plenty of time to have children but at the moment we are just happy with the one! i think i hve kept talkin myself into wantin to try get pregnant this year coz some of our friends slag off 1 child families and they forget carl is an only child!
i often ask him did u miss out not havin a brother or sister and he really doesnt think he did! i need to stop worrying about what other ppl think and do what is right for us now! lucas will ave the best life i can give him and i no if he is our only child he will still b so happy. carl said he had really close lad mates and was able to take them to alot of places with him which i wud allow lucas to do!

some of my friends keep on at me to have another baby but my girlfriends dnt realise the cost and how everything is on carl the mortgage the bills the car everything we get for lucas! i think i am happy jus havin one baby as well i jus think i am so wrapped into havin more!

im not sayin never ever if it happens it happens but we arent going to try or anything!

i no some ppl think im bein selfish and stuff but well i suppose i am bein a lil bit but its wat's best for us now....

anyway lol thought i wud share

xxx
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Oh my darling this was such a sweet post!

If you dont want another child dont have one. Dont let anyone make you feel like you have to have more than one child.

There is nothing wrong with wanting to have one child and like you said you have plenty of time.

You need to do what feels right for you and your family.

We will all support you if you want 1 or 100 children!

Xxxx
 
Cheers babe ur right thoughn I need tto think about my family not other peoples views on my family! I no its right for us at this moment in time!
Xxx
 
Sweetheart that is the least selfish thing I have Heard in ages. selfish is having a child for all the wrong reasons xx we had Dylan and he was our only child, and he was and is totally fine, if anything it has given him amazing social skills as he spends lots of time from a young age conversing with adults. He also has lots of friends, and as we norm went on family holidays he always had company. We both have a lovely relationship with Dylan, we are very very close. You have all of that to look forward to sammy, and as you said you may change your mind when the time is right for you and Carl. As happy as I am to be old and pregnant, if it had not happened I still felt I had been blessed with Dylan, and our close relationship (am sure that comes from being an only child) xxxx
 
SammieAnn87 said:
Cheers babe ur right thoughn I need tto think about my family not other peoples views on my family! I no its right for us at this moment in time!
Xxx
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I dont get why people think your selfish by putting lucas' first. In my eyes thats what you are doing because the financial and emotional strain of being pregnant again isnt what you want and if it isnt what you want lucas could be affected.

My cousin had a beautiful baby girl in april and she had a traumatic birth and has felt pressure from friend to have more and she has said she doesnt want to and when she told them they werent very supportive or very nice about it and it upset her.

When she told me about it I was annoyed about it and she asked me if I thought she was being selfish and I said all the same things to her.

With contraceptives these days there is no need to have children unless you really want them. Pressure to have children whether you cant or just dont want to have one/or more is huge. Dont let them get to you.

Enjoy your home your upcoming wedding and your little man.

I dont see why people see the need to have children if they dont want them. You would wear clothes you didnt like orbeat food you hated.

I think you are brave to stand up and say what you feel and stand by it regardkess of people's opinion!


Xxxxx
 
Tbh if u did want 100 I would maybe try to talk u down lol.
1 child is lovely to have!! And like u said being able to choose to take a friend if needed means he can choose who and when - I wasn't able to choose, my bro and sis came with me lol.

And when I was 10 my 15 yr old sister was such a cow on holiday we didn't go on another family holiday again! So I missed out in potential then really!! Lol xx
 
Thanks ladies ur all right!

U always no the right things to say! I dnt no why I sud feel the need t have another for others! And I am going t stand up a b proud of our decisions and my family!

I do worry will lucas be lonely but like sharon has said dylan has more social skillss and we have friends with children so he will grw up with them and now his started school he will make friends.

How awful for ur cousin!!some people jus dnt think and some think the normal family is something we all dnt think is normal! I dnnt wanna b normal anyway lol I want t b different!
Me and my brother used t fight like cat and dog I remember he used t spend house settin his figures out n I wud go kick them all down haha!


U ladies have made me feel so much better I can't thank u enough!

Xx
 
I absolutely get where you are coming from simply because I have done things the other way round. We have just spent the last 3 years renovating our house and we have done it exactly how we want it and yet it's cost us a fortune but we've paid for it along the way and once the extension is built it is exactly how we want it and if we have had a little one we wouldn't have been able to do it in the way we have. We would have put a lick of paint on the walls and that would have been it.

But now the time has come for me to want a little one in my life but I think I will only want one, I know that easy for me to say now but I have to take Johns age into consideration and it wouldnt be fair on him!

You do what is right for you. There was 8 years between me and my bro and we hated each other when we were growing up so I may as well have been an only child! x
 
Ok so Lucas has been to nursery n loved it again :) lucas normally hates messy play but did some stickin and a painting!

Food today
Breakfast
Weetbix crispy bits 5pp
Milk 1pp
Banana 0pp
Grapes 0pp

Lunch
Crackers 2pp
Pate 4pp
Butter 2pp
2ryvitas 2pp
2boiled eggs 4pp
Cucumber n celery 0pp

Ww carmel slice 3pp
Vanila n chocolate bar 2pp

Dinner I think...
Ww sausages 3pp
Pasta 5pp
Philly 50g 3pp
Passata onion garlic carrots celeryy green beans 0pp
Spices
My mum used t ake this wheen I was younger its creamy n spicy n lovely llol!

Will update the rest later xx
 
Aww glad he's enjoying school. My daughter was great when she started school. I felt so sorry for the mums who's little ones were crying and didn't want to go! Well my daughter is at high school now so that's was ages ago! I'll have to do it all again with Leo soon! Xx
 
SammieAnn87 said:
Ok so Lucas has been to nursery n loved it again :) lucas normally hates messy play but did some stickin and a painting!

Food today
Breakfast
Weetbix crispy bits 5pp
Milk 1pp
Banana 0pp
Grapes 0pp

Lunch
Crackers 2pp
Pate 4pp
Butter 2pp
2ryvitas 2pp
2boiled eggs 4pp
Cucumber n celery 0pp

Ww carmel slice 3pp
Vanila n chocolate bar 2pp

Dinner I think...
Ww sausages 3pp
Pasta 5pp
Philly 50g 3pp
Passata onion garlic carrots celeryy green beans 0pp
Spices
My mum used t ake this wheen I was younger its creamy n spicy n lovely llol!

Will update the rest later xx
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Dinner looks lush cxx
 
Weigh in day for you!!! Oh how I miss weighing in on a Thursday but I will be back with you next week as I will be down south until Wednesday night so if i dont take my scales with me I will be back with ya!!

Good luck chick, how do you think you have done?

I havent had chance to look at your CV yet as work is a bit bonkers.... I may have some other CV's that I can send you if I remove the names and scan them x
 
Thanks becky, I no it does need some tweekin but I dnt no what? Yeh u can always send someothers?
Yes it WI day... I think I have done well I have used some weeklys but not all of them! I really hope I have done well as long as I lose I dnt care how much I'll b happy!!

I will come on as soon as t let u all no!! Fingers crossed!!!

Lucas's 3rd day at nursery his shattered, I asked him if he played with anyone he said no :( breaks my heart t think his on his own! He has said his enjoyed it buyt today said he dint! O well his going tomorrow

Food for today
Breakfast
60g weetabixx crispsy 6pp
Milk 1pp
Bananan 0pp

Lunch
Pita 5pp
Bacon 3pp
2eggs 4pp
Mayo 2pp

Ww ice cream 4pp

Dinner
Chicken kiev 10pp
Chips 6/7pp
CHeese 1pp
I alwas have what I class a naughty meal for dinner on a thursday! I am so so so hungry today dnt no what's up with me xx
 
I got a phone call on the 23rd december tellin me I had won a comp I had entered n won tickets for xfactor tour tickets for 27th of this month? I still ant got them though?!
Mmmmm
 
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