shellreed2011
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Doing really well today just sipping a vanilla coffee 
shells last run!
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carrieclaus
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Yay go shell!! Xx
shellreed2011
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If anyone wants to leave you best do it quick cos I'm about to rant! Ok for those who have read my diary my dad left us on Xmas eve when I was 7 and so started the food obsession now I wont lie I am in fact a daddy's girl I love my dad even if him leaving made me fat! However he remarried had another two sons they ran out on them to and ended up with someone else who I do actually like now here's what gets on my nerves he now has a step daughter he couldn't come to my 30th birthday in the June because "it's not his scene!" so imagine my horror when in the November he goes to my step sisters 21st in exactly the same place my party was! I don't see him from one week to the next yet he helped her get a flat and helps her financially I don't even get a card and yet she's just posed on Facebook dear step daddy I need an early birthday pressie! So I commented underneath dear DADDY I'd just like a card... God I'm so hurt! I know it sounds feet stamping childish but he's MY father! I don't get on with my mum so he's kinda all I got and last year on my birthday he left me sitting outside a pub for nearly two hours because he promised me faithfully he would be there! God I sound so childish I'm just sick of him doing for other peoples kids and forgetting about his own!!!
shellreed2011
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Doing ok rang my dad he says he'll ring me after work so we shall see what he's got to say
Gillclark1
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Ah be gentle with yourself, don't expect too much then you won't get hurt thinking of you
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shellreed2011
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Thank you hunny
shellreed2011
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So my father finished work at half 5 still no phone why am I not surprised? And yet even knowing what I know it still hurts like hell!
carrieclaus
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Phone him, ask him why? You shouldn't be feeling bad... Youv done nothing wrong. <<<<hugs>>>> xx
shellreed2011
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Carrie Hun I've tried! I flew to Spain in 2006 when he lived there to have it out with him! It doesn't work! He's not interested xx
carrieclaus
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Well as harsh a the reality if this situation is... Leave it. He'll need you before you need him... Xx
shellreed2011
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That's the thing hun he dissapeared before for 6 years so I'm worried if I don't make the effort he'll vanish again!
Gillclark1
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Ahh I am so sorry, I feel for you, think about yourself! Pick yourself up and start all over again.
It's hard but you have people on here that care and do t like to see you getting let down and hurt .
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It's hard but you have people on here that care and do t like to see you getting let down and hurt .
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shellreed2011
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Well he did it again! No phone call and his Facebook status says "true colours will always shine through I will do what I want for whoever I want whenever I want"! So naturally I'm in tears again!
shellreed2011
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Gillclark1 said:
Thank you hunny
I know you all care just wish my dad would too! Pretty hurtful for a self confessed daddy's girl!!
shellreed2011
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5 days into week 3 and I've only lost a pound?!! I know I had two slices of bread the other night but I've seen people eat more than that and still have 3/4lb losses! To top it off my dad has said that he will do whatever etc etc and I feel really horrible and down now xx
shellreed2011
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Tried ringing my dad but he's now ignoring my calls because my mother sent him a stinking message so of course it's my fault even though I havnt spoken to my mother for three days!!
nomoremuffintop
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Morning babe. Sorry I have not seen all this until now! Im also a daddies girl but lucky for me I am the only one! Couldn't imagine how you feel but he sounds very insensitive to me? Wish there was something I could say to make you feel better but I guess only he could do that! Sending love xx
Whats up with those scales?? If your not eating and your drinking enough as well as having all your packs then you will lose weight! We all know that yet we still keep checking every day and driving ourselves mental :-S try to stay off them. Please don't be disheartened, I know how much you want this to be it. You have done so well xxx
Whats up with those scales?? If your not eating and your drinking enough as well as having all your packs then you will lose weight! We all know that yet we still keep checking every day and driving ourselves mental :-S try to stay off them. Please don't be disheartened, I know how much you want this to be it. You have done so well xxx
shellreed2011
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Thank you so much it means so much to know that I have you guys to rely on and support me it's just a shame that my own parents can't give me a millionth of the support you guys do xxx
shellreed2011
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Another day down I'm doing ok didn't get my water down tho
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