Me and my sister are complete opposite she is stick thin literally , and i can tell you now she isn'tvanymore happier with herself , no different to us !!! The one thing i have learnt about myself ,,, i may be fat , but i don't dislike the person inside!!! I just need to start liking the outside again , and it will come ,,, in time !! When those jeans are loose again ,,,,, what an achievement !!!!!!don't give up , you resisted the goody jar , so there is inner strength there !!!