She is absolutely CRAZY.
The thing with feeders is that they get their kicks from these women being so dependant on them, they will always feel needed and wanted by them. These women will never leave them, because they think, well who else will want me in this state? I dont think its about the fat being the fetish, i think its more about what the fat represents. This woman is so deluded, i think they try to reach these "goals" because losing weight is so much more difficult. It's easy to put on weight, that doesnt require much effort at all.
She should be damn well ashamed of herself for promoting this as a positive lifestyle. I have a feeling the daughter might go the same way in the end, because we learn eating habits from those around us when we're young.