Lol oh Jen I've missed you!!!! Okay, I'll reserve judgement BUT I won't be getting all excited about potential dates NOR too invested in whether he texts or not (easy to do, seeing as I've been slightly put off). I'll suspend belief (kinda) until I know whether or not he belongs in the stocks (at which point: "off with his head! Lol).... You are so right: the truth is indeed out there.... Especially for a Master researcher like myself
You've given me food for thought. However. I personally, need the little courtesies. I get it totally, my Dad was a Consultant Paediatrician, it made for many a cancelled holiday or dinner.... But saying "sorry, I can't make it because of work/illness /family commitments" should be simple to do, and keys the other person know you value them but just can't be in 2 places at once. There was no apology and no consideration of the fact that I had disrupted my life and my son's schedule. That I find inexcusable. How hard is it to say 'hey sorry chick, can't make it'? And if someone can treat me with such little consideration they're not worth a whole heck of a lot to me. We've known each other for a loooong time, but he's come across as arrogant and unreliable....
But I
won't rush to judgement. I just won't rush to anything where he's concerned, how's that? Not even the next date
It's taken me a long time, but I've come to realise that what's meant for me, won't pass me by. And like a recovering addict I won't take chances on what could tip me over the edge into 'Binge-ville', that
no one is worth. But you've given me another viewpoint so I'll take that on board too. What on earth would I do without my Mininins? xx
I'm glad you're not gaining love, I was getting worried there for a minute! The fact you're not losing says you've hit the 'sweet spot' and know what to do for your body to maintain
When you're in the right head space you may decide to just kick off the final 13lbs..... aaaaand you may not. This plan is about living
your best life, whatever that looks like. Selfishly I hope you're back on it soon so you can turn your back on it forever, but it is so so hard when you're not at the place of misery that you started from, isn't it? It's what always defeated me in the past - so this time, no matter how cute I look to me I'm sticking with the goal I set back in October. Wish me luck! Gosh I'd love to be down to the final little bit too
My day will come xx