10 year diet
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Really irritates me when people say oh pork pies are not fattening and oh go on one slice of pizza won't hurt!!
Bobbina said:as long as I'm a 'fatty' I have no feelings and I'm not a human.
OlliesDolly said:@gina b. I work in a factory so when I approached my personnel manager she said it wasn't said to me so there isn't much she could do!!! But as I explained to her it was defo aimed at me. I passed the line we work on and she said it in a split second to my workmates, no one else in the room. Oh the cow. When I'm lovely and slim I'll rub it in her face. I can change my appearance, she however can change that rotten personality![]()
My God,
I'm so angry and so sad reading some of your stories. I hate that people think it's ok to talk like that to or about someone who's a bit overweight. Who needs enemies hey?
"No wonder your feeling depressed, maybe if you lost weight you'd feel beter".
Bobbina said:CeeCee, like you I remember every single hurtful comment anyone has ever said to me. I'm so shy and coming out of my shell is so hard because I have so little confidence because of such nasty comments. Even my sister and closest ex friends have been so awful to meIt's weird I can remember their faces, what they were wearing and everything when the nasty comments were made, everytime I think of a nasty comment I feel sick and want to cry. A couple of months ago, a group of people when I was on the metro started shouting abuse at me for like an hour calling me 'dog' 'ugly' and 'fat b*****d*''. I'd done absolutely nothing to them, I tried to look away and show them I wasn't bothered but I was dying inside. I've avoided going on the metro ever since and I worry every time I go out alone incase someone says something hurtful.
I'm a genuinely really nice, kind, friendly person and would do anything for anyone but I'm so shy and reserved now because people think it's okay to abuse me because of how I look. People have just discarded me because of my weight and I know this, at uni people used to go out dressed to the nines without asking me, so I ended up feeling depressed at unimeh. I have no friends because they've all buggered off to other unis so I'm all lonely now, but hopefully when I lose some weight I will get some confidence to go out and join a club maybe?
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cat_1977 said:Sound exactly like me - I'd be so angry I'd eat about two tubs of Ben and Jerry's to make myself feel better!