Lily
Gold Member
LOL, us oldies-but-goodies were/are hardcore.
I hear what you're saying, YummyMummy (love your signature by the way - so true!!) but I honestly don't think it's being unsupportive to suggest not eating and hanging on in there. Hunger pangs usually pass quite quickly. The trick is for near-blippers to come here and let us talk them out of blipping!
The trouble with minor cheats - like protein eating - is that can be enough to trigger wholesale bingeing for some. The idea that you've cheated even a little can lead to a "what the hell, I've blown it!" mentality. I've already written today about the all-or-nothing thinking that many of us have developed over the years. That's not healthy either, mind - the key to maintenance is overcoming all-or-nothing thinking, I believe. But in the early days, it gets us far enough into the diet to see amazing results that we don't want to blow on a handful of chicken.
Better to suggest that someone has an extra shake instead of chicken. In fact, better to suggest that someone drinks a pint of water then brushes their teeth - it's amazing how having a minty taste in your mouth can send the desire to eat packing.
I hear what you're saying, YummyMummy (love your signature by the way - so true!!) but I honestly don't think it's being unsupportive to suggest not eating and hanging on in there. Hunger pangs usually pass quite quickly. The trick is for near-blippers to come here and let us talk them out of blipping!
The trouble with minor cheats - like protein eating - is that can be enough to trigger wholesale bingeing for some. The idea that you've cheated even a little can lead to a "what the hell, I've blown it!" mentality. I've already written today about the all-or-nothing thinking that many of us have developed over the years. That's not healthy either, mind - the key to maintenance is overcoming all-or-nothing thinking, I believe. But in the early days, it gets us far enough into the diet to see amazing results that we don't want to blow on a handful of chicken.
Better to suggest that someone has an extra shake instead of chicken. In fact, better to suggest that someone drinks a pint of water then brushes their teeth - it's amazing how having a minty taste in your mouth can send the desire to eat packing.
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