Mags, my heart goes out to you. My grand daughter was older than your little girl, she was five, when her daddy (my son) died. Our lives were shattered, and only in the last year or so have I begun to live a new kind of normal. I truly understand the devastation you are feeling. I still remember waking up each morning, realising what had happened and wondering how on earth I was going to get through the day - and sometimes even WHY I had to get through each day. Please go to
Winston's Wish - help for bereaved children & their families for help with handling children's grief. Your husband, and his love, will live on in your little girl. I am here for you, any time.
Ann xxx